My Dream Girl..

[dixon8298]

Helo Madam and all,

i am 28 years old, a virgin not by luck but by wish.. i dream to have my first with my wife bcoz i think first is special.. the prob is im still single as i am looking for my to be.. and im really expecting sum1 special.. now heres the problem.. im not able to figure out how do i find out whos my special among so many gorgeous girls.. every beautiful girl i approach is not difficult for me to befriend but the only problem is how do i find out whos my special one?

Please advise

[kish123]

When she will come in front of you, you will feel the warmth in your heart and you world will turn upside down. You will feel that this world is so beautiful. You will feel happiness all the time and when you see her and talk to her you will feel like all the problems in your life are solved. So just wait and let the heart and the brain play the game. Good luck.

[complete_man]

We have no clue either

[RoleModel007]

"Dream Girl"... ahem... say whaaaaaaaaaaaat???

How I wish I had an answer to your question. If had had to take a guess may that special girl who you meet and you can't stop thinking about her. You long to always be with her, she starts to come in your dreams (not to confuse with those who feature in nightmares)

And yeah... good luck with that.

[barbiedoll]

If you only look for the outer beauty of the woman, never will you able to figure out your Ms. Right buddy.

A special girl is a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. A girl who fits in to your nature or in other words, whom you find compatible to your goals or things that hold priority in your life, who understands you better. Needless to say that you got to befriend her first to discover these qualities.

[adirocksit]

get out of the dream !! and find normal people ....then life would surprise you and find you the special one.....but since you are not the hero of a movie, you may or may not find it.......you have to lucky and smart....right now you are being dumb just looking at outer beauty....

[archer_paradise]

Helo Madam and all,

i am 28 years old, a virgin not by luck but by wish.. i dream to have my first with my wife bcoz i think first is special.. the prob is im still single as i am looking for my to be.. and im really expecting sum1 special.. now heres the problem.. im not able to figure out how do i find out whos my special among so many gorgeous girls.. every beautiful girl i approach is not difficult for me to befriend but the only problem is how do i find out whos my special one?

Please advise

There is nothing called "special" girl. No fireworks will happen and there are no manufactured soulmates that come from the sky.

People befriend each other and if they find physical and mental compatibility, they may marry each other to spend the rest of their lives together. You being a virgin has nothing to do with your confusion to find the right woman.

The problem is that you are focused on finding a woman... period.

So the only solution is to befriend people (if they deserve it and if you want to) and go out with people you feel are nice. Even then theres no guarantee that you will find a "special" woman even in the next 100 years.

[Logical_Guru]

Dear "On the Verge"

The most wonderful dreams are the ones we cherish and not necessarily the ones we accomplish. Therefore the "Dream Girl" context is to let our imagination go wild. Let me describe her to you. The eyes of Aishwarya, the pout of Angelina Jolie, the smile of Madhuri, the rack of Pamela Anderson, the Waist of Mallika, the butt of Jennifer Lopez, the legs of Shilpa Shetty, the natural ability of Sunny Leone, the cooking skills of Padma Lakshmi, the Yogic capabilities of Halle Berry, the virginity of Kunti and the kindness of Nirupa Roy (of Deewar fame)

I do not wish to be true to my name here, since love and attraction transcend Logic. I would recommend some basic qualifying criteria and choose a person who "Feels right". Matrimonial Ads talk of Values, but how would one evaluate that unless there is an honesty in applying them. A sense of humour, an ability to reason and equal independence could be a good starting point. After that, one just has to let go and experience that magic. Many fall in Love but a few Rise. Wish you good luck and get used to the fact that Love is a confused, irrational feeling. It throws up a lot of questions and more often than not, Sex is the Answer.

Logical Guru is the internationally renowned right thinking moral source of good advice on all topics related to Sex, Spirituality, Religion, International Travel and the Law.

[mysticmantra]

Helo Madam and all,

i am 28 years old, a virgin not by luck but by wish.. i dream to have my first with my wife bcoz i think first is special.. the prob is im still single as i am looking for my to be.. and im really expecting sum1 special.. now heres the problem.. im not able to figure out how do i find out whos my special among so many gorgeous girls.. every beautiful girl i approach is not difficult for me to befriend but the only problem is how do i find out whos my special one?

Please advise

Bro the best thing u always search for right one and the right one is always before u. Also con is u may meet many wrong people that when u meet ur right one u will immediately know she is the one. See everyone has their own perspective of right one or partner of choice. Biological saying that ur union wud result offspring. Emotionally saying who will understand u than rest of the world. Who can make u warm when u r sad, who wud support u when the rest of the world says no, who wud comfort in ur time of distress. She wud be definitely ur right one. U shud listen to Bryan Adams song Have you really loved a Woman. Rest u will know by urself.

[o00]

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