I just want to know if having an affair, purely sexual, outside a marriage WHEN THE WIFE IS NOT INTERESTED IN SEX AT ALL. And if not then what is the person supposed to do. Sex drie is not something which can be killed instantly and also trying to do it will put more strain on the relationship. So to save the marriage can the husband get involved in a sexual affair with someone and love his wife as well. And plz don't tell me that a guy who loves his wife never has an affair. Its not practical and just hypothetical bull-shit.