I have a GF of 7 months and we fight regularly,I dont know if you call it misunderstanding or what,one thing that really bothers me is that when we are fighting or arguing she suddenly stops talking and that is what makes me furious and angry,once i abused her by mistake and from then it has become a habit of mine :/
i know this is wrong but I cannot control myself cursing her when she doesnt talk to me and yeah I tried to make her understand but she doesnt seem to be bothered and yeah out of anger twice I physically abused her(choked her)
I am very short tempered guy,still I controlled my anger,I am really sorry for what i did and I did apologised to her and made her understand why this happened but still she doesnt understand or doesnt bother.
I am really confused,sometimes I feel I should get rid of her and save my soul.But I love this girl
But I know in future if these things happens I will keep on abusing her physically and verbally and things will get uglier
So I need help,
And she behave childishly and accuse of stupid stuff and later when i ask why you have done/said that, she says "aise hi bola tha"
I really dont know what to do!