I am a 25 years girl who was suffering from alopacia totalis(loosing hairs). Even though cured now, i am still under treatment as the doctor says if the treatment is stopped i might loose hairs again and it should be continued for 2-3 years for it to become stable. I am well settled earning girl and i look after all the treatment cost myself.
Now my parents are forcing me for marriage and i am getting good proposals as i am good looking. parents are worried as all the girls(friends) of my age are married. But i am scared that if the guy or his family gets to know about my problem they will reject me(which might hurt me) or if i loose hairs after marriage it might disturb my married life(The doctor who i visit had told me once that a guy is divorcing his wife after she lost hairs due to alopacia totalis which has disturbed me a lot). Now i am not in a situation to say yes or no to my parents. Now my question is -
1. Should i go ahead and see the proposals and get married?
2. Should i discuss with the guy about my problem?
3. If yes is the answer for first question, How to handle the situation if at all it iterates after the marriage?
Please help me i am very confused.