I am married to girl I loves since last 11 years, Have a 8 yr old daughter and we both love her. Lately Me and wife have started arguing a lot, at time these arguments leads to fight and topics reaching to my parents and sisters, During fight she is disrespectful of my parents and sisters. She always think highly of her family and draws comparison between mine and hers. I do not take this seriously, but every time we fight she gets into personality and my family digressing from the topic that we were arguing about. I am not sure what to do, I do not want to argue daily let alone in front of daughter. Right now evern my daughter started making fun of us, she realizes that we argue and fight lot.
Last time she even threatened to kill me one day, I am sure she didnt mean it , but she can go to any length when she is angry, I am tired of this and her self condescending attitude. I respect her parents, though they are protective of her daughter but they do like me as well. I am putting myself through this only for her dad and mon. Her dad is heart patient. I am confused, we do not have may common friends, I have stopped socializing with common friends mainly coz of her attitude and stubbornness.
During her childhood she had been center of attraction, her Dad was in business and she always was eye candy to many of their relatives. I think this might have brought a sense of supriority in herself and coz she is not getting that, she gets angry.. not sure.
I am confused, I do not want to live like this, I am in my thirties, I also think she doesn't deserve to live like this either. I think , If she has issues with me being the person that I am that I cannot change, we should move on.
Need advise ?