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    mam, i m daily visitor of this forum,

    my prob is that ,,i m very lonely ,all my friends are out of station for their studies or for job, we hardly get time to talk each other .. all are busy in thr life ,, but i dont have any work to do and for that i have to stay at home ..i m still preparing for competative exam but i found no interest as i hate doing job, but i was forced to do it as i dont have any other option
    sometime i felt guilt that i was unable to do anything and get worried abt my future ,,. and it make me depressed and lonely.

    plz suggest how should i keep myself happy

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    Make some friends and spend time with them.
    Basically a person becomes happy when he does things which he likes.. So find out what you like actualy and then do it.. to get some joy out of it

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    U are too much anxious about ur future and i think u dont value ur achievements till date much. Have trust in urself and ur abilities, and be proud about what you do, keeping a positive attitude can make the world appear better

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    A person becmes lonely only when he goes away from others...

    so make new friens.. easiest way is to get indulged in group activities... like a game of football/cricket.. or try to call some of the guys who studied with u at college or school and say hi

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    Hmmm...ya, I do understand the issue and do empathise with you. but I would like you to look at some other options as well, apart from the competitive exams. Do that of course, but you know, these days many non traditional occupations are also available, such as physical training instructor, rap artist, photographer, RJ, Call center executive....things like that.

    So, see what suits you, where you can study those skills and then decide. It would also give you a sense of achievement and you would meet people there too. Think about what all you ca do with your life.

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    Every person will be able to do atleast some thing spectacular....
    so u also have that one skill. Find it out and be special in it

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    Develop a hobby, that will help you in recreation as well as in relieving your tension. Do things that interests you that will surely help you forget your loneliness. You may hate doing job, but that can also help you to spend time in a good way. As maam suggested, there are many non traditional occupations available.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    mam, i m daily visitor of this forum,

    my prob is that ,,i m very lonely ,all my friends are out of station for their studies or for job, we hardly get time to talk each other .. all are busy in thr life ,, but i dont have any work to do and for that i have to stay at home ..i m still preparing for competative exam but i found no interest as i hate doing job, but i was forced to do it as i dont have any other option
    sometime i felt guilt that i was unable to do anything and get worried abt my future ,,. and it make me depressed and lonely.

    plz suggest how should i keep myself happy



    dear, try to just friendly with your self. if you will friendly with your self then you will know about your self much better and be friendly with your exams, because every one is busy in their life as you gave here info about your buddies.
    so if you will turn your life in your work , exams and etc the you will love your work so it is much better for you and your future.

    Thanks!

    Wherever You Are I'll Find You..Cause You're The One I Turn To
    Wherever You Be I'll Be With You..Cause You're The One My Heart Is Yo..I need you..

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    why don't you sing a song??


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    U are probably trying to make everybody friends at the same time..
    insteadt try to make one good friend, then use him/her to find more friends. That will be easier

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    Its all in ur mind.. u are afraid to get close to peple.. Thats why u are not getting any friends.. Its always possible to meet like minded people in things you do. WHether in ones studies or in one's job etc etc

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    This happens becuase u are always dependednt on ur existing group of friends..
    i mean u are not mking any new friends... al u have is old gang and they are now unavailable.... try to make new friends in ur new surroundings, who will probably be albe to spend more time with u

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    Join some service organaization and do some public service..
    u will find happiness and new friends too.. u can spend ur free toime well

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    Go to any public place try to meet as much people as u can..
    then u will surely find omeone who is in same frequency as u are

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    Quote Originally Posted by virgin margarita View Post
    why don't you sing a song??

    You are right. I too sing songs during the act of masturbation. It's immensely gratifying.

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