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    I am newly married But my wife does not even like to kiss or she does not like to even talk about sex. She doesn't even like if I do any naughty behavior with her or touch her female parts. She does not know enough about sex and I don't know how to make her understand about my feelings and how to convince her to learn about sex. I also don't understand how to excite her to do anything

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    Hi! Maybe you are both not prepared for the sex. It could be that she's shy and uncomfortable about the whole thing- many girls are. It could also be that you are not prepared. there's a sticky thread in this section- do read that.Also scan the net for how to do it the first time- things that you should be aware and prepared for. I do think that that is the root of the issue.

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    Bad news... you cant force someone to love sex.. it has to be natural... its all about level of libido... if she has low libido then your life is hell.... she will always remain like this.. but still it seems she has some negative or lack of info... you need to raise her awareness about sex... you cant do that alone because she wont understand.... you can talk to her and explain her how sex is imposrtant but thats not enough.. get someone to talk to her... a family member with whom you can share.. and who can help you to explain her....

    if you feel hesitant to talk to any female relative confide in a male relative who can ask his wife to talk to her...
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    Well you need to start slowly with such women. It doesnt look like she is even at the shy stage.

    Looks like she does not want to indulge in such acts. So, to start with you need to pretty much 'date' her. Go out for dinners and movies, just hold her hands so that she can be comfortable with you. Eventually you can only hope and pray that she initiates any such acts. You do not push her into such things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am newly married But my wife does not even like to kiss or she does not like to even talk about sex. She doesn't even like if I do any naughty behavior with her or touch her female parts. She does not know enough about sex and I don't know how to make her understand about my feelings and how to convince her to learn about sex. I also don't understand how to excite her to do anything
    High on testosterone, I understand your plight.

    Solution: It's called the SSS. Salt sugar solution! You are sugar, involve in foreplay. Salt is motherinlaw. Speak about this to your motherinlaw!

    That'd do the trick.
    Last edited by Gudu Gudu Returns; 27-01-2013 at 07:52 PM.

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    Get emotionally attached with her first, sex will follow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by o00 View Post
    Get emotionally attached with her first, sex will follow.
    aptly said in one sentence!

    Give sometime to understand your partner and make her feel comfortable with you. Girls are generally shy and few of em take longer time to get comfy with their partners. Have patience.
    After winning an argument with his wife, what sd a husband do to maintain better relations?........................Say 'Sorry'!

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    She doesn't even like if I do any naughty behavior with her....this is too much..WHY SOO SERIOUS !!!

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    If Sex was considered to be "Duty" and not an Act of passion, then the maid would be enough. One would not need a wife. Based on that fact, Trust comes before Lust. Women need a reason to have Sex, Men just need a place. Win her trust. Fall in love with each other. Many women need romance that opens up their heart, before they spread their legs.

    Do what she likes. My lady might like long walks on the beach. Another patron's possible Punjabi match likes to have 6 Parathas. Your wife may like to watch Quick Gun Murugan on the DVD.

    Everyone has some idea about what Sex is. If nothing works out, write back to me. You might have to involve the maid and ask her to set an example.

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    Hey why not boost her up with viagra? and see what happens?
    or watch a erotic movie with her

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    I hate such Idiotic girls who behave like Morons after getting married.
    I mean, do they not realize that Sex is a very important part of married life..? I am SURE they do, but still, they behave like complete junk heads.

    Thank you my SBF friends.

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    The question here is how long it has been since you've been married.

    If it hasn't been too long then,
    - its worth giving her little time so that she comes to her ease.

    If you think that you have waited long enough
    - try speaking to her about your/her concern and work on it.
    - if that doesn't work involve her parents (in the dialogue off-course).

    It can't be the case of 'not being prepared', 'emotionally not attached' or 'uncomfortable about the whole thing' once marriage is done (unless it isn't a forced marriage). Even the law of the land does not agree with it.
    Last edited by RoleModel007; 04-02-2013 at 07:17 PM.

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    Show her porn, this way she will learn how to make love, and know how exciting it is

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    APNA HATH JAGANNATH SE KAM CHALAVO

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    The fact that you have not responded means that your wife has not yielded to your urges. It is now time to hire a maid who has goods like Ayesha Takia and ask her to sweep and mop while you drool. You may want to take it further in full view of your wife while you ride her like a derby horse.

    Why should you try - Apna Haath Jagannath. Women are made to ensure that men screw them and vice versa. God made us and put pleasurable tissues in specific places. Recruit that maid and send a pic.

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