I am going through some horrible time. I have been into this relationship with my bf since more than 5 years. Off late i mean since past 1 year i am being heavily neglected. We were into a long distance relationship for more then 2 years. but now i have taken transfer to his city in august 2012. we both did our MBA together. maam i am being heavily neglected.
he has his new set of friends and i accepted it.but i am not in any of his fun plans neither for an outing nor for a dinner nor for a movie. i mean even when we were into a long distance relationship whenever i went to his city he did not had time and he never took off from office when i was in his city. there were times when i saw his face for only 4 hours during my stay for 2 days as he was busy .and now since i have come here again and settled here he has no time
height was my birthday on 14th feb when he did not make me any surprises, no party , nothing, i waited till 12 am on 14th that he will do something now now now.. but nothing happened. i got a plain normal gift a rose and a card which hurted me, i said spent some time with me , dont give me gifts. he said he has no time.
i agree in corporate life ppl dont have time but on Sundays or at least alternate sundays he can give me time or when he is out with his friends i can also accopmany him. i say to him to come online for video chat on skype and he always says no . he is non responsive but remains highly committed for marriage with me .