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    Hi,
    My name is su****,and I am frm Andhra.My pblm is I love my cousin.I like to be with her every minute.Since my graduation I started spending time with her But the thing she is not aware of this.I didn't tell her as she is elder than me(against hindu rules).Now she got married and I am unable to forget her.I am not showing any interest at other girls at my office.so pls help meeeeeeeeeee

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    Well, how can we help you here? You know that you have to help yourself. You cannot keep hankering after a relationship that cannot happen. Apart from the relation issue, she is already married. You will really have to stop thinking of her and move on. Maybe its too early to look at other girls. That will happen when you allow yourself to get over her.

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    Maybe its just infatuation which you are experiencing. Stop spending time with her and try not to think about her. She got married, so its no use thinking about her now. Even if she wasnt married, you couldnt marry her as you two were cousins. So, forget her and move on.
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    bhen se pyar karega to malum kya kehlayega ?

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    she got married..end of the story..

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    Wake up and smell the coffee... She is gone and its time for you to move on.
    Your feelings, attraction, pain will eventually fade away with time. It's the circle of life...

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    nothing can be done...

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    Let me tell u bro........

    Each one of us falls in love with his/her own cousin at one stage of our life.........so there's nothing unusual about it.

    Dont worry, all you need to do is control ur emotions till time puts a permanent layer over it......and soon you will realise it was just a foolish chemical locha of ur brain...

    You need not tell her also........she already knows it.....:-))
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    @ Each one of us falls in love with his/her own cousin at one stage of our life.........so there's nothing unusual about it.

    dude u must be in love wit ur cousins and dnt be over confident and too conclusive that it wud be a case for every1. we r not filled with incest lik u.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MICHEAL BARBOSA View Post
    @ Each one of us falls in love with his/her own cousin at one stage of our life.........so there's nothing unusual about it.

    dude u must be in love wit ur cousins and dnt be over confident and too conclusive that it wud be a case for every1. we r not filled with incest lik u.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gracefulguy View Post
    Let me tell u bro........

    Each one of us falls in love with his/her own cousin at one stage of our life.........so there's nothing unusual about it.

    Dont worry, all you need to do is control ur emotions till time puts a permanent layer over it......and soon you will realise it was just a foolish chemical locha of ur brain...

    You need not tell her also........she already knows it.....:-))
    There is a difference between the family sibling sort of love, and love through an outside relationship. Here, you should speak only for yourself. The majority of us do not have incestuous feelings for our cousins.
    Do what thou wilt and ye harm none

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    Stay away from her and engage yourself into all other normal guys' activities. You need determination.. people are able to get off drugs and everything with determination, this seems to be pretty possible.

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    Its nothing new. Gracefulguy talks sensible ! He just said that it happens to many guys; that its not uncommon. Secondly; Incest is when you do it with sister in your family, not cousin. Love/infatuation for your cousin doesn't mean that you are a pervert or characterless.

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    Stop fighting amongst urself guys...
    Boy wid d prob....u hv to give time to urself,this is wrng n u shud know it...once u know it ,u urself wil be able to cntrl ur feelings...
    See there is no chance of complition of dis story as she is elder to u n ur uncles daughter,tht makes ur frst cousin.it cud hv been possible if she wud hv been ur second cousin,n wrst is she does nt know about it,as it is she is happily married.never let her know so,she wont ever talk u thn.

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    i don't get it...from where u found out that Hindu religion don't allow to marry elder women at first....... well about forgetting her... eventually time heals everything.... if it doesnt watch some porn... u will want a girl immediately.... if not u might have swing another way

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