Feeling marital vaccume for the last one month, though standing of 15 years relationship.
There are circumstances:
1. Death of uncle in my wife's family. She used to visit daily there. She got ill, my daughter got ill, whole home get disturbed. I told him also to take care of her health, daughter's health and for home as well. I don't know what she felt and she started irritated and started misbehaving me by using unexpected language and that too before my children. I responded ... "Is this behaviour you have been taught in your home, i.e., to speak rudely with your husband". On this she lost her tamper and started abusing my dead parents. Also started shouting while saying that I wish my mother in law be also dead like her uncle. Though I did not mean that.
Since then, she is using silence as her weapon and not ready to talk to me. Now she told that she is dead for me.
She does not want me to speak anything to her or to touch her, either in love or otherwise.
She is performing her duties like preparing food for me and not handing over to me. I have to take the same myself.
She also told all incident to her sister.
Her sister also commented upon me that I am troubling her.
I am not going to say anything to her parental home, brother, sister or otherwise as I feel nobody would listen to me.
She also restricts me to discuss anything about our relations with my friends as well as relatives.
I want to get everything restored to its original position, which I am not getting even saying sorry.
Marriage counselling option is also not feasible as she is not ready to talk to me and not ready to go with me.
My daughter who is in growing age, looks, observes and understands everything and she is the only mean to our communication. Even she says her mother to be usual, but now my wife has started opening all my previous acts of last 15 years before my daughter.
I am losing my confidence and respect even before my daughter. Despite mine being explained everything to her, and despite being knwoing that her mother is not absolutely right and she is not behaving properly, she is helpless. And all the times, she remains afraid that whenever I go to my wife for any talk, conversation, communication, there will be clash in our family, which my daughter does not wish to grow, especially when her examination time is coming.
There is one son of 8 years in my family, who is also obserring this and I am unable to do anything.
I just have to work outside and to sleep in home and there is no other requirement of mine in home.
I also expecting that my wife now may stop cooperating in my family activities and cooperation in household jobs, like my clothings, foods, etc.
Please advise what to do?