Takes me too long

**be143** · 28-02-2013, 11:47 AM

I am 29 yrs Old, Recently got married, my concern is I am not able to cum early with my wife as it will take more than 45 mins or 1 hr for ejaculation, As she is young she is not able to take my force, so I end up within 10-20 mins of unsatisfied love making without ejaculation, for which I am worried.
Regrading my past I used to masturbate a lot, while masturbation usually it takes 2 - 3 hrs or depends on my mood to ejaculate, So I am thinking that due to my long hour of masturbation habit is taking effect on my love making.
Kindly Help.

**Preeto Maam** · 02-03-2013, 11:42 AM

Well, this condition is called delayed ejaculation. It can happen because of psychological or physical causes. Many times it does happen because of conditioning caused by a habit of unusual masturbation- too strong, too fast etc.
Since you are able to ejaculate, it does not seem to be a physical problem. You may have to train yourself and your wife to sexual response, and how to communicate and guide your partner to provide the right stimulation.

**o00** · 02-03-2013, 11:45 AM

2-3 hrs

Anyway it more of a psychological thing. If you dive into passion, it shouldn't take more than a few mins. Don't think yourself as a pelvis thrusting a machine when you are doing it.