First and foremost , i like this forum and its concept and the way mods and people help others. Great work.
I am a married girl , we have a 3 year old boy as our child . off late my husband avoids me completely. we dont get physical for weeks and its on my insistence that we make love once in 15-20 days. i feel bad that i have to make him remember this thing which is so important to have a good bond. even when i ask him to make love he at first tries to avoid it and i have to persuade him for a couple of days to make out.
i some times feel that he has some affair but he completely denied it , i tried to get info from few of his friends which include females and they said no does not have any. this is been going since past 2 years. i feel terrible and i shared it with my mom and she said theres no need of sex after 6 years of marriage.. this thing reduces and ultimately stops in 10 odd years of marriage.
i dont agree to it and believe that a relation has to be kept same in all aspects. yes some thing reduces with time but love should not be one of them. how can i get under his skin and get why he is doing it all.