Good morning, my marriage has been fixed with a guy some 4 months back and we will get married in year end 2013. I have been with him since these 4 months, everything is so good and fine, his family is really good and he earns well also and likes me as well. i have a problem though. he fulfills my demands and keeps me happy but i am yet to see respect for me in his eyes.
he made me meet his friends, great , fair enough but he had his hand over my shoulders all that while. i clearly disliked it. i expressed this to him later but he said he did not feel thats wrong. this is just 1 example.
i do not feel he respects me which for me is most important. last weekend he wanted to kiss me while dropping me home after a disco party for which i refused. he got upset and did not call me till evening next day , i only called him.he should have understood that we are not married, even i feel like to kiss him but one has to be in limits.
all these and many things are there, he may love me but not respect. i can not be with such a man. but pls tell me am i over reacting and what should i do. i am not able to breathe properly and do my things as i am too grossed with this thought.