Hi I am 26 years old married man.i have been married just 3 months back. I really appreciate preeto mam,and all mods for providing solutions to peoples problem.
Now my problem: I am married a few days back. I have some sexual problem. I have desires to have sex ,but I dont get proper *****ion or no *****ion whenever I hug or kiss my wife or on more oral sex. I searched on internet a lot about the problem and reasons of not attaining *****ion. I am healthy,quite young only 26 years old, I dont drink alcohol and I dont smoke even and *****ile dysfunction occurs at old age. I searched and found that in my case may be it occurs due to over anxiety, too much thinking about if I can perform on bed, I guess I have pressure to perform ,self made pressure, I like to hug and kiss my wife but when it comes to intercourse I dont get any *****ion. When during day ,if someones around and I cant have sex ,den I get *****ion also only a few times not others. I have lost my confidence.i visit her only on weekends due to job and whenevr weekend comes I feel like wat will happen at night and how can I avoid sex and I came under some stress. a few times I have taken suhagra tablet ( a kind of viagra), but 2-3 times it worked but not other times. I am avoiding going to home due to feel of insult on this. My wife dont say anything.she loves and cares for me. And I dont want to depend on viagra for sex everytime. Its so difficult to take tablets for making sex. And I am too much shy to visit or consult any doctor. Even I tried to consult ,but not possible. I searched for medicines on internet also. And I enjoy mastarbating. But here also *****ion occurs after watching some porn and takes time and lacks hardness but once in while full *****ion also occurs in masturbating. I am taking healthy coslty libido natural diets like pomegrenate juice,guava,badams (as I serched on net )these days like so that somehow it works but not. I am doing ramdevs exercises kapalbhati ,anulom vilom,though before marriage I never waked up early. I sleep 7 hours a day. (sometimes 6) I want to take medicines having no side effects and I dont want to depend upon that for sex everytime. And I want to have permanent solution for this. I am very sad these days. And if it goes like this how will I be have kids and how will I have happy married life and will I be able to satisfy her.And yes I cannot visit doctor. Its really embrassing. I searched ayurvedic medicines without any side effects for this. And I found vigomax fortex. Will it be good to take it and does it have any side effects. Will I become dependent on this or for how many days shud I take it.
I need some doctoral advice. Is there any online trust worthy doctor who can provide solution without I need to face him/ her.
And yes I used to masturbate from class 10 ,maybe 3-3 times a week.
And I listened after marriage couples have sex even thrice a night,even if I have sex somehow using viagra I exhaust after once only.
Any other practical solution to my problem will be appreciated and I will be highly thankful and obliged to all of you. No abuses please, a humble request.
Thanks and regards