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    Hi I am 26 years old married man.i have been married just 3 months back. I really appreciate preeto mam,and all mods for providing solutions to peoples problem.
    Now my problem: I am married a few days back. I have some sexual problem. I have desires to have sex ,but I dont get proper *****ion or no *****ion whenever I hug or kiss my wife or on more oral sex. I searched on internet a lot about the problem and reasons of not attaining *****ion. I am healthy,quite young only 26 years old, I dont drink alcohol and I dont smoke even and *****ile dysfunction occurs at old age. I searched and found that in my case may be it occurs due to over anxiety, too much thinking about if I can perform on bed, I guess I have pressure to perform ,self made pressure, I like to hug and kiss my wife but when it comes to intercourse I dont get any *****ion. When during day ,if someones around and I cant have sex ,den I get *****ion also only a few times not others. I have lost my confidence.i visit her only on weekends due to job and whenevr weekend comes I feel like wat will happen at night and how can I avoid sex and I came under some stress. a few times I have taken suhagra tablet ( a kind of viagra), but 2-3 times it worked but not other times. I am avoiding going to home due to feel of insult on this. My wife dont say anything.she loves and cares for me. And I dont want to depend on viagra for sex everytime. Its so difficult to take tablets for making sex. And I am too much shy to visit or consult any doctor. Even I tried to consult ,but not possible. I searched for medicines on internet also. And I enjoy mastarbating. But here also *****ion occurs after watching some porn and takes time and lacks hardness but once in while full *****ion also occurs in masturbating. I am taking healthy coslty libido natural diets like pomegrenate juice,guava,badams (as I serched on net )these days like so that somehow it works but not. I am doing ramdevs exercises kapalbhati ,anulom vilom,though before marriage I never waked up early. I sleep 7 hours a day. (sometimes 6) I want to take medicines having no side effects and I dont want to depend upon that for sex everytime. And I want to have permanent solution for this. I am very sad these days. And if it goes like this how will I be have kids and how will I have happy married life and will I be able to satisfy her.And yes I cannot visit doctor. Its really embrassing. I searched ayurvedic medicines without any side effects for this. And I found vigomax fortex. Will it be good to take it and does it have any side effects. Will I become dependent on this or for how many days shud I take it.
    I need some doctoral advice. Is there any online trust worthy doctor who can provide solution without I need to face him/ her.
    And yes I used to masturbate from class 10 ,maybe 3-3 times a week.
    And I listened after marriage couples have sex even thrice a night,even if I have sex somehow using viagra I exhaust after once only.
    Any other practical solution to my problem will be appreciated and I will be highly thankful and obliged to all of you. No abuses please, a humble request.
    Thanks and regards
    Amit

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    Hi! Look, I don't understand why you are self medicating and trying out different remedies and not visiting a urologist for the issue. You will actually need to do that. Also, there is a section on erec tile dysfunction in the FAQ thread. Do take a look at that:

    http://forum.santabanta.com/showthre...sked-questions

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    you have to visit a doctor whether you like it ot not self medication can only lead to some serious problems nothing else
    no online doctor can solve your problem unless and until they examine you.you will be only wasting your time on the net

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    Well I think you may need to go to doctor but here are some solutions you may try which can improve your condition.

    1- Include onions in your day time meal in the form of some salad etc.

    2- Eat about 13-15 dates and drink milk afterwards daily.

    3- After using the above diets for 4-5 days, try to masturbate without watching any porn stuff, Actually this is the most important part which will train your brain to come out of the fantasies.

    And if the above routine does not work after adopting for a month then please go visit a urologist/sexologist.

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    visit her only on weekends due to job and whenevr weekend comes I feel like wat will happen at night and how can I avoid sex and I came

    [b] looks like you are away in the weekdays
    i think your working to much
    i remember during Olympics i was putting in 14 hours shift
    and soon realized sexually how weak i had become

    take my advice go on a vocation for a week with your wife
    i think you will feel better

    if not than see a doctor

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    Thnks all but still I want to know about if any sideeffects of vigomax fortex, its ayurvedic medicine and if anyone can answer my query.
    And m taking dates and onion..daily nowadays and I guess dates are very hot,making too much garmi in body.3-4 are ok or shud I go for 7-8.
    I read ed section but I didnt find my answer.
    Visiting doctor...i dont know how to ecpkain my problem to doctor and I am really very shy and its embarassing....if anyone understand..
    Thnk u

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    hiii!!!


    it is always wise to visit doctors in such situations.
    Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.

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