Maam i am married woman aged 31. i got married 10 years back and i have 2 kids. daughter is 9 years old and my son is 5 years old. my husband works in US since past 2 years. I live in Delhi where he owns a house. my in laws did stay with us but now they stay in old house in Chandigarh since past 1 year around.
ever since my husband went to UK ( via job ) our income has increased a lot and i shifted my daughter from GD Goenka school to DPS RK Puram. now my girl studies there and that was my one aim. it was mutual decision to sent our kids to high profile school and that is why i made him choose the proposal from his company for 2 year proposal to work outside even if it meant me staying alone here.
But his 2 year is over now and i want him to work for 1 more year so that we have good and huge back up money with us but he wants to come back to us. I love him as well but i want him to work for 1 year and i said we will save this money . i mean his 6 months income will mean a lot as he works in UK and the future of our kids will be safe to a good extent.
We do fight a lot over it and i do not know where am i wrong. I am doing nothing wrong here and doing it just for my kids, he said i am selfish. From where and which angle am i wrong. I need him here emotionally and physically as well and i miss him a lot. Miss him deadly but i am sacrificing for my kids. he does not realise it and treats me as if i am selfish.
You just tell me what to do and how to put things to an end.
Just want to tell you 1 imp thing... His income gets doubled if he works there in UK than in India.