Dear Preeto Mam,
i am a regular reader of ur page, but i am really in bad situation plz help me.
i was in a relationship with a guy who was in depression due to his past experiences and career. when i entered in relationship i knew it
i thought my love and moral support help him to come out of it....but from the very begining his family and he himself was of the view
that i should proceed further only if i will marry him ..i agreed. but after 2 years the guy still didnt cop up with it and i was pressurized to get
married to him without getting him settled. my family was ready to wait and even i was ready to wait for his settlement but he
is so much insecure and i dont knw wat is his problm that the only thing he want to do is marry me and nothing else. the pressure increased
and i denied that i'll not marry u...u didnt done anything during relationship(wrt his life and career). i did everything to help him and supported him and his family. now when i said no everyone is blaming me that i have played with his emotions. he is still in depression i feel guilty sometimes....