I am a married woman aged 35 , it was an arrange marriage 14 years ago almost, i have a boy aged 12 1/2 year old. He is my only reason to live and else i have nothing and no one to love and care for me. My husband never ever cared for me nor he loved me anytime. He married me because of dowry my father gave him. I married him and that moment i fell in love with him. When i was 4 months pregnant i got to know that he has an affair.
I tried a lot but nothing happened to stop him from meeting that girl.I told my parents to intervene but to my shock they asked me to adjust. I asked my in laws that can i do further correspondence studies. This also created a scene at home and then i got to know he has relationships with that girl since 5 years . My great X husband hurted me badly and ill treated me and beat me up many many times.
To add to woes my great parents never ever tried a single bit to help me get out of this whole mess. I left his home and went to live at my friends place and i decided to divorce him. My parents and in laws put all allegations on me of being wrong and all. Parents asked me to settle differences but never came to my rescue. I dropped idea to divorce him and tried once again but this time my child was seeing me beaten up and being hurt.
I did not want my child to go through this all and finally filed a case of divorce. Since past 11 years i am living alone. I am beautiful and got many offers for marriage but i never wanted to move ahead and instead cared for my son. None of my parents / in laws / great husband / NO ONE came to see how i am living. I did correspondence MBA and worked/earned for my child.
Now my husband filed a case for child's custody and wants his child. He says i do not earn good enough to give my child a good , decent life. Obviously he earns 10 times more then what i earn. But my boy has been given everything by me. My lawyer says my husband has a point. he daily goes to his school to brainwash my boy and my boy also thinks that i am responsible for our divorce. My child sometimes fights with me and he also has in back of his mind that i am not giving him the love of father what he deserves.
I never ever brainwashed him against my husband but my husband's family do it daily when his school ends. He comes to home by auto. I can not go to pick him as i work as well. I do not know what i will do if my own child will some day go against me or if judge asks him that who he wants to live with. My whole life is my son. I never ever did anything wrong in my life. My life means my boy.
He is the last thing i have , should i tell him what his father did to me. or what my n his parents did when i needed monetary help. or will it create a bad impact on my child. I do not want to loose him in anyway or else i wont be able to live a single day if he starts hating me.