i can see people getting satisfactory replies here but mam my ques is do we have to do ethical always???? me a married women.....with a kid of 7 and these 8 yrs of marriage have been disastrous.husbands an alcoholic guy whose on my salary...an year back i met this friend of his who had a tragic marriage as mine......sharing our pains i don't know when we came close. and there was a day when we broke our limits.. i have no guilt mam. im happy i have him as strength with me i can now take care of my kid properly, my husband still is same, beats me up, fights like hell, abuses the same way, but things have now changed . i have a zeal to live. we are not in same city we meet every second or third month. we spend time together and go back to our lives fresh to struggle again.....its an extra marital affair mam. ethically wrong. but im happy hes happy, we are not breaking any family. i support him mentally he motivates me similarly...we talk and find solution to our personal problems.
we do not wish to get divorced for our kids sake but we can think of not meeting each other either.. i knw mam most of you would say its wrong , mistake , stop it try to talk to ur husband, but all i did, and if it was just a physically attraction then why wud we be bothered for solving our family problems. we are giving each other comfort in every way....
please dont reply just for replying sake....i knw many of us share the same lives...please reply logically...waiting...thanks