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    HI!I am in love with a muslim girl and i am hindu .We both want to get married,but somewhere we know our parents will never get ready for such marriage.My lover also dnt want to change her religion after marriage.My thought is if we did marriage by following different religion it will be very difficult for us to live in society. We both are adult enough,we know it is merely impossible task.I just wanna ask u wat to do?should we try to do a breakup and get married to respected religion partner,or rest we should leave for the fate?????????/

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    You havent explained the situation well. If you live in a small city, it will definitely be a problem. If you both have good financial status and jobs etc, then move out of your current society and get married in the court. You have to leave one thing- your partner or society.

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    You two were together with your parents and family for much much more time than with each other. And since you two knew that they dont like such inter religion marriage ideas, you guys shouldve either dropped the idea at the very start of this relationship or you should be bold enough to show them the middle finger and do what two consenting adults want to do.

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    Inter-religious marriages help reform society. You should go ahead and get married and set a shining example to the World. You should also follow both customs, rituals and functions. This is true liberation. After a few years, you should also considering going to the Church and broadening your religious horizon.

    Good luck.

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    Personally, it should not be a problem for you both...you should learn to respect each others' beliefs!

    The society presents a different problem altogether! as o00 explained...it could be a problem in small towns...however, Metropolitan cities are more liberal towards such instances!

    Also consider your future...your kids...what will their religion be? I am sure "Humanism" is not an acceptable answer for the "Religion" field in the Passport Application
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    why should you bother about the society..society will always find fault in other's life even if they get married within the same religion..if you are still worried about the society,marry her and move to city...

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    it will be better if you marry some one of your own religion

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    Parents who have brought u'll up should be respected and It will be better to take this major step with ur respective parents approval .
    Both of u will be playing the blame game
    when priorities change and responsibility will be added .And no offence to anyone and with due respect ur religions and its practises are too different .
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    better find someone of ur religion pal ur not an actor whome people accept with open heart best of luck

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    Go to US or UK, Australia, Canada or some European country then marry her and settle down there with your GF. If you cannot do this, then break up with her and forget about her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    HI!I am in love with a muslim girl and i am hindu .We both want to get married,but somewhere we know our parents will never get ready for such marriage.My lover also dnt want to change her religion after marriage.My thought is if we did marriage by following different religion it will be very difficult for us to live in society. We both are adult enough,we know it is merely impossible task.I just wanna ask u wat to do?should we try to do a breakup and get married to respected religion partner,or rest we should leave for the fate?????????/
    It's not a crime to fall in love, but there are some practical things to be understood before you get into marrying someone from another religion than your own.

    1. You or she willfully or by force [of love/out of love] will make a compromise for life certain things like,
    a. conversion.
    b. naming of kids as per one's religion.
    c. asking the kids to follow certain religion.
    2. This hindu muslim thing wont work, this I say out of experience. You will either be forced to convert to Islam, if you object, your children surely will become muslims by default.
    3. Muslims though a minority in India, are such huge in number that they stand as minority only in the eyes of government, now life after marriage that too if you live to see that day [going to police station, going to court, appearing on television etc] After all that one really does not know how long the marriage will last, it solely depends upon how strong your will is to stick on to each other, not to repent about many a things which you would sooner or later.

    So think, think harder.

    Dont get influenced by suggestions here, have a open mind, only if you are able to risk it all, then take the step forward. Remember, tying the knot is just a 2 second act, but untying it will take years, if things dont work well between you both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    HI!I am in love with a muslim girl and i am hindu .We both want to get married,but somewhere we know our parents will never get ready for such marriage.My lover also dnt want to change her religion after marriage.My thought is if we did marriage by following different religion it will be very difficult for us to live in society. We both are adult enough,we know it is merely impossible task.I just wanna ask u wat to do?should we try to do a breakup and get married to respected religion partner,or rest we should leave for the fate?????????/

    I think that society is not the only thing that you would have issues with. If you really think about it there will be issues reising your children. So I would sat break up.

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    Man let me make u one thing clear.its frm experienc. when we r in luv v r just on top of world with no conection to ground n reality.u can take gaurantee of urself but not your partner.u may b same feelings for her til the end but u cnt stop her if she want to leave.so,i advic u not to commit any blunder against feelings of your parents.
    best wishes!!

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    I am not saying you shouldn't but its not going to be easy if you are middle class or anything lower than that. It's sounds bit depressing but such is case in our society and I call it as I see it.
    Good luck buddy.

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    if u will take the step to go ahead and ill get married then may be it can give u happiness bt wat about your parents with whom you both have spent your lives they cared for you loved u whole life without expecting anything and at one stage for your hapiness u dont wnt to bother wat they are saying......if they would b against the marriage then evn u know they hv a valid reason coz its not evn inter caste marriage bt your religions are different ......it would b not easy to take this major step....and if your parents are not giving their approval then tht too for your well being.
    To go ahead with your decisions is fine and may be both of u could get the happiness u r looking for but remember this that parents are always the first one to whom u shuld listen coz if they are saying something then that would be for your better life ahead.....
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