Hi all. Thank you for all the help and sugestions you provide to people who have problems.
my problem can sound bit silly. I have been married 2 years and before that we was dating for 1.5 year and know him as a friend for 3 years before. total 6 years i know my husband.i know he was in many relationship before me and they were very close and intimate.i have been in relationshiip before, but not got intimate out of choice.i do not bother about his past.my problem is receantly when cleaning the house i found a old CD named-my life.i think it was our pictures i watched it.but it was picture and email and video of his ex.i knew everything about that.but still read all of it
i felt bit hurt at begin because he cared for and called her same romantic names he calls me.and the cd was wrote 6 months after we started dating.then i remember that he was honest about it from the begin so i ignored it.
receantly on a picnic with my BFFs, i spoke about this.they tell me it is strange he still has saved this cd.i said it is possibl he forgot he had this.but they are not convinced that he needed to save all his old memories.some of the mail are very discriptive and intimated,but not dirty things stored in cd.it is true that it hurted me to see them together and very close.
now i am confused.i dont want to tell my hubby that i see his cd as he will not trust me again.but the mails and pictures of them close disturb me all time.i am getting very stressed and upset
please tell me what to do.