I am currently in a relationship with a guy. Its a long distance relationship-hes in London studying. Things are not that pleasant in my relationship. When things go good they are good and when they go bad - its terrible. It is a commitment for marriage and hes planning to sent his family and even coming back for the whole marriage thing but lately i have been wondering that this is not the kind of marriage i would want. I would not want to fight with my spouse all the time. Even a small argument with him turns into a huge fight and then he abuses and say terrible things ( hes the commanding and dominating type and doesn't allow me to lead anything ) . When things were good between us he asked for my Nude pictures- i was reluctant like any other person would be not sure if i want to marry him or not. With a lot of forcing and tons of emotional talk he made me do it later promising that he will delete them. At that time i was sure i ll marry him. for the past several months i have made my mind that i don't wish to marry him- tried to tell this to him a couple of times while we were fighting . And like expected he has actually started to blackmail me ( dint come as surprise though ). Giving him hints that i m not happy with him and that both of us don't deserve to lead such marital life makes him completely out of control and he threats me that i should do this and he will not spare me for ruining his life and wasting his time and jeopardizing his future as hes leaving London and coming back just to marry me and that he was so loyal and faithful that even being in a long distance relationship never thought of having an affair or even flirting. I know his anger and i know what extent he'll go to make my life hell once i leave him. I m completely stuck because of my own faults. I have tried talking to him calmly and nicely but nothing works with him. Please assist ! Thanks .