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    hi, i was in relationship with my bf for 3yrs,was mad abt him.my first love. trusted him very much.he dumped me and gt married without my knowledge.later i gt to knw tat he has had many gf before.i feel so much depressed,cant stop thinking abt him and feeling miserable for getting cheated.he cld have told me before,he just used me and dumped

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    Hi! Some people are just horrible and the sooner you stop letting them impact you, the better it is! I know its a bad thing that has happened and you must be feeling hurt and awful about it, but the best service you can do to yourself is to just let this episode go away from your life! Erase it and carry on!

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    Time is a great healer.. try to forget him.. it will take some time, I know you can. Just get rid of those bad memories, you can turn back the time and change the things anyway. So better move on and find a new partner.

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    i loved someone for almost 5 years..was mad about him..my first love..always dreamt of living my life with him..me and him..had a thousand dreams..but...he is getting married to someone this month..he never told me that he was getting engaged..i still wonder if i'm not even worth an explanation..on a fine morning,i saw his engagement pics being uploaded on facebook and that's how i learnt he was getting engaged..you can guess how terrible i might have felt..relationship was going smooth..but then came a period of silence and then these pics..and i'm still surviving..you too can..leave his thoughts..you needn't do anything..god himself would deal with him for you..he would pay for what he has done to you..in fact you should feel happy..god saved you from such a characterless man..you would have ended up suffering all your life if you had married him..stay happy..

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    You cant do anything now. It just gave you a life lesson, so be more careful in trusting others in future.

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    be brave with time those memories will fade away....

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    I have always heard people saying that girls cheat in a relation,but in actual boys r much big cheaters.almost same story i had faced like in this thread.love,life,dreams and then suddenly a long silence n then engagement with some other girl.evn i felt how i cud b such a big fool.i got cheated in my first love.then i was broken n torn..but stil i gathered courage to live n survive.i curse myslf for not listening to my parents who were always against tht guy.hope god forgiv me for hurting them.i just got a lesson tht love is blind n u get to hav ur vision back once u r cheated n thrown away.parents r the one who wud b ready to hold u even aftr knowing how much u betrayed them.

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    I can understand hw you feel. My gf of 7 years did the same. Everything was fine. smooth...just 2 days after we celebrated her bday. I felt miserable too..Took to alcohol and suffered from low self confidence. No explanation no regrets nothing..She just cheated and I found out..Cried, tried to convince...Nothing worked.

    Its been a year now. I changed my city. Time will heal it. Erase the memories. Photos, cards, whatever reminds you of him. Socialise a lot....meet new people. Get back to old friends that you couldnt give time to, cuz of your relation. Take up a hobby. Keep yourself as busy as you can. Find a confidante - Best friends, parents, siblings.

    I told everything to my parents and they helped A LOT. ANDDD..DONT FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND DONT LET OTHERS FEEL THAT WAY. Life is too big to regret over a person. Easier said than done I know, but trust me you being brave is the only way out !!!

    All the Best.

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    Funny a year ago, I thought I couldn't live without her. I thought it was her smile that made my heart beat. I thought there wouldn't be anyone like her. Apparently I was wrong!!!

    There comes a time in your life where you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it. Your time is now girl.
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    Watever happened was bad but just think that he cheated u and its gud that u got to see his real face so don't regret bt move on coz in some or other way this was gud for u coz he was not loyal.......
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    @ shyguy i feel u , 7 wasted years is like a decade that took away ur most emotions n left u stone hearted . how are u doing now , do u ever felt like taking a revenge ?

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    see this is not the case
    a cheater is a cheater whether boy or girl they dont have feeling like others

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    Quote Originally Posted by shyguy11 View Post
    I can understand hw you feel. My gf of 7 years did the same. Everything was fine. smooth...just 2 days after we celebrated her bday. I felt miserable too..Took to alcohol and suffered from low self confidence. No explanation no regrets nothing..She just cheated and I found out..Cried, tried to convince...Nothing worked.

    Its been a year now. I changed my city. Time will heal it. Erase the memories. Photos, cards, whatever reminds you of him. Socialise a lot....meet new people. Get back to old friends that you couldnt give time to, cuz of your relation. Take up a hobby. Keep yourself as busy as you can. Find a confidante - Best friends, parents, siblings.

    I told everything to my parents and they helped A LOT. ANDDD..DONT FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND DONT LET OTHERS FEEL THAT WAY. Life is too big to regret over a person. Easier said than done I know, but trust me you being brave is the only way out !!!

    All the Best.
    u r right bro repped you

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    Quote Originally Posted by sonny_ View Post
    @ shyguy i feel u , 7 wasted years is like a decade that took away ur most emotions n left u stone hearted . how are u doing now , do u ever felt like taking a revenge ?
    Revenge...never !!..Dunno why..I guess I loved her way too much...For sometime I even wanted her to get back...

    Beyond that I just erased her ctrl+shift+del...if only life was programmed...doesnt go away...but still

    I think revenge is never an option....The best way out is to be indifferent...feel nothing...as for the bad time..well yes..I was at my lowest...took to alcohol heavily after being a teetotaller for all the while..but then I got lucky...with career...doing well now...love is something I miss still but way to apprehensive to be in a relation again..

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    Quote Originally Posted by shyguy11 View Post
    I can understand hw you feel. My gf of 7 years did the same. Everything was fine. smooth...just 2 days after we celebrated her bday. I felt miserable too..Took to alcohol and suffered from low self confidence. No explanation no regrets nothing..She just cheated and I found out..Cried, tried to convince...Nothing worked.

    Its been a year now. I changed my city. Time will heal it. Erase the memories. Photos, cards, whatever reminds you of him. Socialise a lot....meet new people. Get back to old friends that you couldnt give time to, cuz of your relation. Take up a hobby. Keep yourself as busy as you can. Find a confidante - Best friends, parents, siblings.

    I told everything to my parents and they helped A LOT. ANDDD..DONT FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF AND DONT LET OTHERS FEEL THAT WAY. Life is too big to regret over a person. Easier said than done I know, but trust me you being brave is the only way out !!!

    All the Best.
    vry well said n vry sensible reply ......keep it up
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