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    Default Want a Shy Girlfriend or Wife... do they exist ??

    Hii..
    Just as every person has his/her own fantasy and dream picture of his/her partner, I too have nurtured such dream image of my future wife since a very early age. You may find it weird or funny, but I always wanted a girl who would blush before before me and feel shy when i try to kiss or make love to her.
    I am very romantic at heart and was influenced by movies . I never liked a girl who was ready to do foreplay at slightest request.

    Now I have a girlfriend. (age 26) But she never feels shy before me. She is very open. She can change her dress, get nude, and can go one kissing me and making love, but rarely she feel any nervousness or blushing. She might have blushed, but only once,and slightly, when we did it for the first time.

    The whole world( all her female friends) believes that she is very shy and will never let her her husband kiss her. Surprisingly people think like this about her in public.


    She was a very conservative girl, and I am sure she was much away from world of porn, and erotic stuff. She tells about her other roomates who appear to be so open and repulsive to me for their lustful talks.

    Mam, am I abnormal or is it of for me to have such fantasy ?
    More importantly, has the world ran out of 'Shy' girls..?? DO such shy girls dont exist and is it all just fiction what they show in movies ?? If not, where do I find one dream girl for myself ?
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    I think that after reading this, many people will actually envy you your girlfriend. If you have a partner who is too reticent, that can be a problem too. If you read this section, you will find plenty of people who have issues like that. So, do your role plays and count your blessings, is my advice to you.

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    So, you want a girlfriend/wife who will be shy for life? Get real, man. Its not good to live in a fantasy world as shown in bolly or porn movies.
    I think the only way you can achieve this is by telling your current gf to 'act' that way. As preeto maam rightly suggested, the problem with shy people is far more than with open people.

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    Your fantasy is abnormal. Try to get rid of it.

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    brother,so are you going to dump this girl just because she is not shy? :| shy girls are an endangered species..you'll not get them in plenty these days..esp in cities..if you are so desperate to get a shy girl,you'll have to go to some village in search of a bride..but when it's a typical village girl,you'll find it extremely difficult to live with her..lifestyle,personality,culture etc would be entirely different..she may be too shy that she won't even let you have sex with her..she may keep saying,not now..and think about it..she won't encourage experimenting on bed..your married life may become a disaster..i've seen a lot of ppl posting queries complaining about shy wives..and you want one!i'm telling you,life won't be easy..a shy girl would be always shy..not just in bed alone..but in case of socializing too..and finally you'll have to pay for your fantasy..i don't really understand why a girl should feel shy on bed..may be the very first time,a girl may feel shy..but why again?so always opt smart girls..the ones who are like you..only then you can feel like best friends and enjoy your life..never go for anybody who is just the opposite of your nature..

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    Show her lots of hindi moviie she may learn some thing new like you learn live in fantasy...

    You are lucky to have such friend who is not faking any emotions.

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    you'll be known as the fourth idiot if you opt for a shy girl......i hope you dont want that to happen...so be thankful for what you have....

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    its human nature... one may be shy only until he or she knows the other person completely!!! if a person remain shy whole life, then she or he isnt normal!! and yeah it sounds nice to want someone shy for life... but in case she was like that am damn sure you would have been here complaining i have a gf who is too shy, doesnt let me touh her or kiss her.. am frustrated i cant do anything with her etc.......

    Human They are never satisfied with what they have, they always linger for those things they dont have or cant have!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BraveP View Post
    Hii..
    Just as every person has his/her own fantasy and dream picture of his/her partner, I too have nurtured such dream image of my future wife since a very early age. You may find it weird or funny, but I always wanted a girl who would blush before before me and feel shy when i try to kiss or make love to her.
    I am very romantic at heart and was influenced by movies . I never liked a girl who was ready to do foreplay at slightest request.

    Now I have a girlfriend. (age 26) But she never feels shy before me. She is very open. She can change her dress, get nude, and can go one kissing me and making love, but rarely she feel any nervousness or blushing. She might have blushed, but only once,and slightly, when we did it for the first time.

    The whole world( all her female friends) believes that she is very shy and will never let her her husband kiss her. Surprisingly people think like this about her in public.


    She was a very conservative girl, and I am sure she was much away from world of porn, and erotic stuff. She tells about her other roomates who appear to be so open and repulsive to me for their lustful talks.

    Mam, am I abnormal or is it of for me to have such fantasy ?
    More importantly, has the world ran out of 'Shy' girls..?? DO such shy girls dont exist and is it all just fiction what they show in movies ?? If not, where do I find one dream girl for myself ?


    Dude you must be lucky to have a girlfriend like her ........... If she was conservative by nature, and if she is open now that just means that she trusts you and is showing her true self to you.Just accept her for the way she is as long as she truly loves you..........and just go with the natural flow rather than putting any pressure on your relationship........
    Wenever you miss sumone dont close your eyes to get der image into your head . . Jus pick da damn phone and cal dem . . .

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    hi, shy girls do exist... but like your gf , some shy girls are shy only in front of other people... your gf loves you.. she is comfortable with you.. & feels free. there may be girls who feel shy in front of husband or bf.. i donno... but i dont think she is doing anything annoying but not being shy in front of you.. anyways going nude/ talking to roomates about intimate thngs between u, irks u, then just talk to just & politely request her not to.
    Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Preeto Maam View Post
    I think that after reading this, many people will actually envy you your girlfriend. If you have a partner who is too reticent, that can be a problem too. If you read this section, you will find plenty of people who have issues like that. So, do your role plays and count your blessings, is my advice to you.
    Quote Originally Posted by ariesgirl View Post
    brother,so are you going to dump this girl just because she is not shy? :| shy girls are an endangered species..you'll not get them in plenty these days..esp in cities..if you are so desperate to get a shy girl,you'll have to go to some village in search of a bride..but when it's a typical village girl,you'll find it extremely difficult to live with her..lifestyle,personality,culture etc would be entirely different..she may be too shy that she won't even let you have sex with her..she may keep saying,not now..and think about it..she won't encourage experimenting on bed..your married life may become a disaster..i've seen a lot of ppl posting queries complaining about shy wives..and you want one!i'm telling you,life won't be easy..a shy girl would be always shy..not just in bed alone..but in case of socializing too..and finally you'll have to pay for your fantasy..i don't really understand why a girl should feel shy on bed..may be the very first time,a girl may feel shy..but why again?so always opt smart girls..the ones who are like you..only then you can feel like best friends and enjoy your life..never go for anybody who is just the opposite of your nature..
    Quote Originally Posted by Sweet Mimi View Post
    its human nature... one may be shy only until he or she knows the other person completely!!! if a person remain shy whole life, then she or he isnt normal!! and yeah it sounds nice to want someone shy for life... but in case she was like that am damn sure you would have been here complaining i have a gf who is too shy, doesnt let me touh her or kiss her.. am frustrated i cant do anything with her etc.......

    Human They are never satisfied with what they have, they always linger for those things they dont have or cant have!
    Quote Originally Posted by theachiever View Post
    Dude you must be lucky to have a girlfriend like her ........... If she was conservative by nature, and if she is open now that just means that she trusts you and is showing her true self to you.Just accept her for the way she is as long as she truly loves you..........and just go with the natural flow rather than putting any pressure on your relationship........
    Quote Originally Posted by sens View Post
    hi, shy girls do exist... but like your gf , some shy girls are shy only in front of other people... your gf loves you.. she is comfortable with you.. & feels free. there may be girls who feel shy in front of husband or bf.. i donno... but i dont think she is doing anything annoying but not being shy in front of you.. anyways going nude/ talking to roomates about intimate thngs between u, irks u, then just talk to just & politely request her not to.
    Thank you all of you .. Preeto mam, sonny , Sens, Sweet Mimmie, Achiever, Aries Girl, Rhythmic, young gun..
    i loved your inputs and comments..

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    Default Just needs a little shyness.. she is too LOUD..

    OK .. i understand that no girl can remain a typical Hindi Movie type Shy girl for her whole life, but with us its just been 2 years..

    More over, She is too loud, keeps talking about herself all the time..

    She want me to admire her all the time, so no matter how much I admire or compliment her, far from feeling shy, she takes it for granted.


    I often talked to her about these things in a very polite way, but she just dont understand them...

    A good respite is, when we go out and love in public...
    If i kiss or hug in open, public, park, or roof, she is very copy.. gets folded in my arms like a typical shy girl.. however as soon we enter she we enter in four walls of a bedroom , she is a different personality altogether. Starts changing her dress in front of myself, or dont minds getting nude... She just hangs around my neck and starts kissing all over me..
    She often acts like OooLaaLaa (Dirty Picture) and that really pisses me off..


    Yes I do ask her to act sometimes .. like enact blushing.. at that time she really looks amazing and most beautiful women on eart.. I just wish she was just a little more like this and naturally without me cajoling her to act like that..

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    Quote Originally Posted by BraveP View Post
    OK .. i understand that no girl can remain a typical Hindi Movie type Shy girl for her whole life, but with us its just been 2 years..

    More over, She is too loud, keeps talking about herself all the time..

    She want me to admire her all the time, so no matter how much I admire or compliment her, far from feeling shy, she takes it for granted.


    I often talked to her about these things in a very polite way, but she just dont understand them...

    A good respite is, when we go out and love in public...
    If i kiss or hug in open, public, park, or roof, she is very copy.. gets folded in my arms like a typical shy girl.. however as soon we enter she we enter in four walls of a bedroom , she is a different personality altogether. Starts changing her dress in front of myself, or dont minds getting nude... She just hangs around my neck and starts kissing all over me..
    She often acts like OooLaaLaa (Dirty Picture) and that really pisses me off..


    Yes I do ask her to act sometimes .. like enact blushing.. at that time she really looks amazing and most beautiful women on eart.. I just wish she was just a little more like this and naturally without me cajoling her to act like that..
    Arey theek hai na yaar.......... in public she is behaving properly, maintaining her reputation well.......... in front you she'z comfy......... thats perfectly fine...... What more u want....... ?
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    well said sweet mimi .Humans - never satisfied .

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