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    hello mam,

    I am 25 years old guy & I am madly in love with my cousin's ex-girlfriend.

    she is 24 years old & she was in relationship with my cousin for 5 years.

    my cousin ditched her an year ago.

    To be honest,
    my cousin in totally like A PLAYBOY. She was his 5th or may 6th Gf

    he betrayed her several times during those 5 years,

    She was always like an OPTION to him...

    but after their break up,

    me & she became best friends..

    & now i have fallen in love with her..

    she possesses all the qualities which i want in my wife.

    we chat,talk flirt for almost 24 hours a day..

    I am thinking about proposing her for marriage as i have been well settled in my family business for almost 1.5 years now

    but her past with my cousin is the only thing which is worrying me.


    I just dont know how would my cousin react if i propose her...??

    would it be like breaking THE BRO CODE if i propose her...??

    What Should I do now in such confusing condition...??

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    Hi! Well, that's a LOT of chatting- when do you do your other work? but seriously, if you both want to marry, there should be no issue with anyone. The only thing is that you have to be certain that you can handle this in future and will not blow a fuse everytime you see her talking or exchanging a 'hello' with your cousin. Theirs is the past- yours is the future!

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    Propose her dude! She is a gud girl as u r telling

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    you already told that your cousin is such a moron..go ahead dude..propose her..marry her..live happily..and show your cousin that she deserved someone who loves her truly and that now she has found the right one..let him see you guys living happily..let the loser realize his mistakes and not ditch any more girls in the future..
    All the best dude..wish you both a great life ahead..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hello mam,

    I am 25 years old guy & I am madly in love with my cousin's ex-girlfriend.

    she is 24 years old & she was in relationship with my cousin for 5 years.

    my cousin ditched her an year ago.

    To be honest,
    my cousin in totally like A PLAYBOY. She was his 5th or may 6th Gf

    he betrayed her several times during those 5 years,

    She was always like an OPTION to him...

    but after their break up,

    me & she became best friends..

    & now i have fallen in love with her..

    she possesses all the qualities which i want in my wife.

    we chat,talk flirt for almost 24 hours a day..

    I am thinking about proposing her for marriage as i have been well settled in my family business for almost 1.5 years now

    but her past with my cousin is the only thing which is worrying me.


    I just dont know how would my cousin react if i propose her...??

    would it be like breaking THE BRO CODE if i propose her...??

    What Should I do now in such confusing condition...??
    Bro ur cousin ditched her na, then his chapter is over and u know her and like her. I think there is no problem. Regarding ur cousin, u shudnt feel bad abt such shameless creature.

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    dont worry about your cousin if you find her suitable for you propose her simple....

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    One simple solution : Tell your cousin about her if you both ( you and your cousin ) are very close so later on he don't feel akward. I think you are not breaking any BRO CODE because he already ditched her and she is single and you have every right to be in relationship with her. So All the best enjoy your life.
    Last edited by LiveLif3; 26-05-2013 at 09:29 PM.

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    Dude, listen your brother was an idiot and what that means is you don't have to be.

    From what you have told us about this girl, she's a keeper and a stayer and a lover if she put up with your casanova brother for 5 years.

    So just confess your feelings to her and if she brings up her relationship with your cousin when you propose her, tell her

    " My brother was a fool who kept running after mud and couldn't see a sparkling diamond in front of him. But when i look at you now, i don't see you as a diamond but as the reason of my existence and my happiness. there's no life without you. And regarding my brother was your past, i can't change it. What i want to do is live my future with you , if you agree to "

    It might help your proposal. To go my sher, propose this girl and enjoy the future with her

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    life is a game about grabbing n loosing opportunities,ur bro is a foolish looser if left dis gurl,lurking fr others.
    so no harm in accepting her as ur wife.fr d precautionary measure,in advance take some family members in
    confidence,n let thm no d whole story so tht whn d time wil come,others wil b able to make him understand dis well.
    rest wil be all fyn.
    all d best.
    Many times what people need is NOT a brilliant mind that speaks but a special heart that LISTENS!!!



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    Must prepare for the awkward situation which will arise each time you and her meet your cousin at family gatherings etc..

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    Dude she was his ex long ago , now why u worry , well if u both love eachother propose her ASAP , otherwise some 1 else will take the chance , but behave like mature guy in future and take care of her . dont think of her past , past is past forget it , now suppose if u had got married to a unknown girl and then later u might have come to know she had affairs in her past life what would u do ? leave her ? no na , having affairs in past is ok , but being characterless is different thing , or a playboy like ur cousin .
    she is a good girl , u like her , she likes u , both can understand eachother what more u want dude ? go for it , instead of thinking much and wasting time and posting ur query here , u should had proposed her , anyways now also its not too late, propose her and be happy and behave maturely but and take care of her from ur cousin as well but dont over do it ok , tc , be happy , best of luck
    Last edited by ickon2004; 05-06-2013 at 06:55 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hello mam,

    I am 25 years old guy & I am madly in love with my cousin's ex-girlfriend.

    she is 24 years old & she was in relationship with my cousin for 5 years.

    my cousin ditched her an year ago.

    To be honest,
    my cousin in totally like A PLAYBOY. She was his 5th or may 6th Gf

    he betrayed her several times during those 5 years,

    She was always like an OPTION to him...

    but after their break up,

    me & she became best friends..

    & now i have fallen in love with her..

    she possesses all the qualities which i want in my wife.

    we chat,talk flirt for almost 24 hours a day..

    I am thinking about proposing her for marriage as i have been well settled in my family business for almost 1.5 years now

    but her past with my cousin is the only thing which is worrying me.


    I just dont know how would my cousin react if i propose her...??

    would it be like breaking THE BRO CODE if i propose her...??

    What Should I do now in such confusing condition...??
    Screw the Bro Code..
    Screw your Cousin..

    Propose the girl and live happily ever after.

    G'day
    ABB KI BAAR ...
    ... Badi Garmi hai yaar !

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    Go propose her now before before it gets too late in which case you will have to make a new SIS CODE with her.

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