I am a married 26 yr old woman and live with my husband and a year old kid in Mumbai. We are originally from Indore but due to husband's business moved here in December 2012.
I am looking for some advise regarding my teen neighbour. He is a nice young boy but there has been couple of incidents which is been worrying and playing on my mind all the time.
He spends a lot of time playing with my son in our house. People on forum might feel I am talking like a small town woman but the matter is really disturbing me so thought sharing and taking other opinions.
This kid has brushed against my (.)(.) a few times while taking my son from me. This is the only time he does but this incident occurred numerous times. I took them as accidental touches initially so started taking precautions but still he managed to touch me around few times.
Another incident I observed was on my home computer. He has good computer understanding so I keep asking him to download movies and songs for me. On Wednesday he was downloading some latest songs for me and I was in kitchen doing some cooking but we were verbally communicating which songs I need. In middle I just went in the room and saw a folder open of our photos. He didn't close the folder but hide it behind chrome. I didn't react and let go but same evening I saw my inner fallen out of drawer which I am sure it was not fallen initially.
The last incident was today morning when he came to our place early in the morning. I was in my night dress and was cleaning house and putting things back in places. I kind of caught him staring my body.
We talk a lot like siblings and share a good relation but these things have worried me and don't know what should I do. I've tried to avoid thinking everything is normal and I am over reacting but when I put all the incidents together it doesn't look normal.