My parents have arranged my marriage to a guy who hails from our community. I was asked whether i have a bf or not as my family is very open . but i never had one and agreed to marry this guy. i liked him from day 1 and we started talking and meeting and eventually fell in love. We both incidentally work in same city and our parents live in our parental city. few weeks later he asked me to shift into his flat and start living in as live in partners and that way he suggest we can know each other well. i agreed to him and we started living together as it was an arrange marriage and his idea was what i liked. i was in no danger as i was his fiancee but after months he says he does not feel we can "work it between us"...those were his words...he says i am not the one he can marry....he has no solid reasons to say this as well. he asked me to leave his home and packed my everything himself and dropped my belongings to my old flat where my rommies stay.
he has no shame and says its up to me to what to say to my parents but he will definitely cancel the marriage. i loved him like hell and i feel he used me badly.i cooked for him ,lived like a wife, cleaned his home ,his bed and everything from morning tea to all. i loved it all.i can not believe that he has ditched me like this. i can not say to my parents that we have lived in and i have been physical with him. just do not know what to do. he does not pick my calls and does nothing.says in august first week when he will go to his home then he will cancel our marriage...i told him the fact that i have taken him as my husband and he can not do this to me after living as a husband. i asked him to give 1 reason to leave me and he had nothing concrete to say..he just said that when you can have sex with me before marriage then how can i say about your past, and when you have the audacity to live in before marriage then it shows your character. i just told him thanks and left from there. i do not know where to go from here now and if he cancels the marriage now ...then not only i wont be able to tolerate nor my parents. i just do not know what to do now and how to stop him from breaking our relationship.