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    Hello mam, I am a Regular visitor of your page and have been the admirer of your suggestions regarding to people's problems. I have nobody to whom i share my secret and i feel that its a good and genuine place to confess. mam, i am a 22 year old boy engineering graduate, i have never been into any relationships and have no girl as my friend i m good looking though and there is no problem in my personality but the thing is never get opened or comfortable in front of girls. mam, my secret is that i use to have online paid cam sex. i sometimes feel not to do it but then after some days i again get involved into it. But, most of the time i paid them only to have some chat with me. i wanna ask that does it make me pervert or a sexoholic because i do that cam sex and chat in 3-4 days a week. i'll be grateful if i get some genuine replies from you.
    thank you very much mam!!!

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    Hi! Well, no, it does not make you a pervert or a sexaholic, but you know, this stuff is really not that great for anyone. Its better to get socialised into real life and people rather than live in a secret fantasy world. Obviously, you feel that way too because its making you uncomfortable about yourself, and on top of that, you end up wasting a whole lot of money.
    My advice to you is to try and get out of this habit as soon as you can- I know its easier said than done. It can spoil your future relationships and yes, in an extreme case, make you a misfit.

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    Don't waste money foo.. use it in better activities like gym or swimming classes. Start going out instead of sticking to your laptop. Use it only for emails, news and shopping.

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    As long as you are not having paid cyber sex with a 50 year old bald man, there is nothing wrong. It is just a habit, which is a seasoned acquisition. A perversion is an anomaly of character. You are fine

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    first thing, this do not make you a pervert :P pervert is guys whose sexual behaviour is not socially acceptable out open in public not in a single confined room, behind close door everybody see porn movies n stuffs and can have fantasies about, even girl see porn behind closed door, dude so chill, enjoy and god bless you

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    1st things 1st.. ur studying. better concentrate on ur studies. i know its difficult and everyone of ur age gets to hear this advice from every person around.

    Ur parents have given u money for college, net etc. dnt misuse it. have a sense of responsbility. imagine what they would feel when they know that ur using their money in this way. They obviously are striving hard for that money.

    This is not the end of world. Why do you want to jump to the sex life that quickly. save something for future.

    Do what u have to do at this age, study well. get a good job...

    Also interact with your classmates. go out with them. Also at home try to spend more time with your parents and dnt stay alone..
    talk about something or other.. i dnt say.. study 24 hrs.. nope... but always have some topics to discuss... this will make u occupied and feel better

    pls dont waste moeny in such stupid things..
    Next time u feel so, do it only if u dare to tell ur dad or mom that u have spent say 20$ on this...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hello mam, I am a Regular visitor of your page and have been the admirer of your suggestions regarding to people's problems. I have nobody to whom i share my secret and i feel that its a good and genuine place to confess. mam, i am a 22 year old boy engineering graduate, i have never been into any relationships and have no girl as my friend i m good looking though and there is no problem in my personality but the thing is never get opened or comfortable in front of girls. mam, my secret is that i use to have online paid cam sex. i sometimes feel not to do it but then after some days i again get involved into it. But, most of the time i paid them only to have some chat with me. i wanna ask that does it make me pervert or a sexoholic because i do that cam sex and chat in 3-4 days a week. i'll be grateful if i get some genuine replies from you.
    thank you very much mam!!!
    Going by that logic, almost all of us are perverts and sex-o-holics.

    You're fine dude. Just don't pay for it. That is wastage of money. Other than that, I see no problem in it.

    It would be a problem if you do it everytime you are alone, or it hurts your work or lifestyle. Even then, it does not make you a pervert.

    G'day

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