Hello agony aunt...I am a 34 year old male and my wife is 25.I recently got married.Its been 2 months.It was an arranged marriage.The problem is once I asked for her facebook password as I wanted to see her activities and the stuff she does on Facebook but she clearly said no I can't give u access to my account as I have my own privacy.I was hurt as I'm her husband now and there are no secrets between a husband and wife.Also she does not login to her Facebook or any other ID from our common laptop,she uses her cellphone for using such accounts or even for using internet.Once i tried to see her cellphone but found that it was pattern protected.I mean,what is this mam? Is there anything she is hiding from me? Is there anything fishy? These things literally baffle me.I mean she can ask for my password or touch my phone whenever she wants.But what is this? Am I right? What should I do?