I have always have had a settled life as far as professional life is interested but not so much in personal front. I am working girl aged 28 and live in Pune whereas my parents live in Ahmadabad. My problem is my parents. I have done post graduation and was always given very good education and i work in an MNC and earn very good.
My huge issue is that my parents are not searching a guy for me. They are dead against love marriages. I never had a relationship as i never wanted to hurt my mum dad again ever. Till date i have remained single and been a real honest girl for them.
but now i am 28 and soon in October i will be 29. My parents are not even searching a guy for me to get me married. i am working since 3 years.i am beautiful tall and have a clean character. what more they want. i am almost 29 and still there is no search. i myself can not choose a guy as they are against love marriage. i do not get them. i have told them million times to start searching for guys. there answer is okay we will. i am saying this since i got the job that means almost 3 rubbish years. i need to get settled and i really need a partner in my life. i need someone to love to share things and to have a life with. i have kept my dreams to myself till now but its high time i need a husband.
i myself made an account on matrimonial websites and got good responses but when i told my parents about the guys i shortlisted , they never really approached anyone. i am hurt by their attitude. who will marry if i go to the age of 30 or at least i will get secondary options. sometimes i feel i should choose a partner myself which will is very easy for me. i had an argument with mom that why the hell are they not looking for a groom and she said they are going to look soon. maam you also know these things take almost a year if you start searching for a groom. and i can not wait now. this thing is beyond my mind and i am loosing my peace. almost all my friends are married or have fiancee which is the way to go. i feel sad at times because i have every thing in me , i am beautiful , tall , working , earning good and got even many offers a year back on matrimonial websites as well.