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    Hi ma'm. I'm a 21 year old guy from delhi. I think I have made

    a terrible mistake. I have a cousin who is of the same age of

    me. We used to be like very good friends, but for the last few

    years I saw a change in her. She used to try to get physical

    with me. She had many relationship problems in the past. I

    helped her with those things. Even though I never tried

    anything on my own, she tried to get physical whenever she ever

    had the chance..We never kissed or never had any sexual

    relation ever, just cuddled a few times and I blame myself for

    that each day, thinking why did I even respond to her

    initiation. Now she is telling me that she has told her parents

    about it and threatning me that she will tell my parents and

    everyone that I was the one who was trying to molest her from

    the beginning. I know it was my mistake to do anything like

    that but it was her who initiated it each time and now she is

    putting all the blame on me (I don't even know why)..I feel

    like committing suicide because this is going to ruin me even

    if I'm not entirely guilty but nobody's going to believe me as

    she is a girl..what should I do please tell me..

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    You could be wrong here but there is no proof of cuddling. Its too stupid to even discuss the root cause of this but let her reveal this secret to the family. Start ignoring her altogether.

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    you needn't end your life or do any sort of stupidity...she has nothing to prove it..ignore her completely...and i can assure you one thing..she wouldn't have said all this to her parents...she is just scaring or blackmailing you..she is a liar..ignore her..and stop feeling guilty..it was just cuddling..nothing else..

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    Just stay quiet, and ignore her. I don't think she will do anything and if she does, then she has to prove it. You can put 100 allegations if she puts 1.

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    2 ways to improve from a mistake.

    1. Do not commit the same mistake again the next time around.
    2. Keep committing the same mistake at least 4-5 times to make sure that it was really a mistake.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hi ma'm. I'm a 21 year old guy from delhi. I think I have made

    a terrible mistake. I have a cousin who is of the same age of

    me. We used to be like very good friends, but for the last few

    years I saw a change in her. She used to try to get physical

    with me. She had many relationship problems in the past. I

    helped her with those things. Even though I never tried

    anything on my own, she tried to get physical whenever she ever

    had the chance..We never kissed or never had any sexual

    relation ever, just cuddled a few times and I blame myself for

    that each day, thinking why did I even respond to her

    initiation. Now she is telling me that she has told her parents

    about it and threatning me that she will tell my parents and

    everyone that I was the one who was trying to molest her from

    the beginning. I know it was my mistake to do anything like

    that but it was her who initiated it each time and now she is

    putting all the blame on me (I don't even know why)..I feel

    like committing suicide because this is going to ruin me even

    if I'm not entirely guilty but nobody's going to believe me as

    she is a girl..what should I do please tell me..
    U dont have to end ur life for this stupidity. Let the things come out. Also she has proofs of u for groping. Chill but u can cosult a lawyer and ask anticipatory bail for it.

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    Involve your parents or some elder person and tell then that your cousin is taking extra interest in you, proposed you and when you refused, she is black milling you for false excuse of molesting her.
    do this before she takes any step against you. By doing so, you will get the advantage of Prima-facia.

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