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    hi... m a 25 yr old gal in a relationship vt a 25 yr old guy for almost 2 yrs now.. the thing is that we r of different religions. we lov each other very much and wanto settle down as soon as possible but problem is that our families are disapproving of this. we somehow want to get married but dont kno how to go about. plz guide us..

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    Are you asking us how you should go about gettting married? are you both prepared to do so without your parent's consent? If you are both agreed upon that, then a court marriage would be the best. Its advisable to go through a lawyer- there are plenty in the court premises who would be able to guide you through the process.

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    Just elope if you can. Else forget each other.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    go to google maps...enter your city name....find the nearest register office in map...get directions....shut down your computer...take a witness along...tell the same to your bf....pay the money..sign the register....happy wedding...
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    hi... m a 25 yr old gal in a relationship vt a 25 yr old guy for almost 2 yrs now.. the thing is that we r of different religions. we lov each other very much and wanto settle down as soon as possible but problem is that our families are disapproving of this. we somehow want to get married but dont kno how to go about. plz guide us..
    There are two ways either convince ur family else go to register office and marry leaglly.

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    don't do it...thats the advise.......

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    I would say DO NOT go against your parents wishes atleast in case of an inter-religion marriage. Chances are high it will not end well!

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    Quote Originally Posted by zoomzipper View Post
    I would say DO NOT go against your parents wishes atleast in case of an inter-religion marriage. Chances are high it will not end well!
    Exactly .... i agree. .

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    If you are meant to be together, you'll end up that way irrespective of caste, religion, family views, related issues or any situation for that matter. However, if it isn't supposed to work out then it won't, even if you have same-caste, same-religion, and most holy wedding with a "perfect" partner.

    It may be argued that chances of a failed marriage or post-marriage difficulties increase in inter-religion alliances. But can anyone guarantee an issue-free and an all-weather sustainable same-religion alliance?

    That said, there is no villain in this situation. You are right in a way. Your folks are right in their way. Even if you jell well with you partner, learning or having at least some basic understanding of each others values and customs - something that you would have done at a young age - would be a drag on your day-to-day lives. It is not all that easy and there will be testing situations.

    Also, you cannot spend your married life just with each other. It is always nice to have family, friends and others in the society to play their role for better, richer experiences. And you may think cutting off from family would help, but most times that only increases failure chances. Also, would forming new relationships on debris of old ones be justified?

    Ultimately, it is your marriage and thereby your decision.

    Good luck.

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