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    Hi mam,

    I need your help?
    My name is Tanya, I am 26 year old. My ex tell me every time that i am out of fashion.
    I have never sleep with any one, never go to night club or disco. Is that the reasons he always said that i am out of fashion?
    I am doing my master study now.
    Please tell me how are modern woman? and what should i do?

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    Hi! Why worry about what an ex says? A person who is truly modern is one who is ready to explore new ideas in terms of learning and trends. Keeping oneself mentally agile and ready to learn is what modernity is all about- not sticking to outdated ideas- always willing to explore...that's true modernity- not going to discos or sleeping around!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hi mam,

    I need your help?
    My name is Tanya, I am 26 year old. My ex tell me every time that i am out of fashion.
    I have never sleep with any one, never go to night club or disco. Is that the reasons he always said that i am out of fashion?
    I am doing my master study now.
    Please tell me how are modern woman? and what should i do?
    You don't need anybody to tell you how are you...
    be comfortable in what you are and how you want to be...
    many people will try to change you...but if you change then there is no you..
    btw why do you care about your ex...you are cool in every sense...chill

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    Its all about your personal preferences...sleeping around and not going to disco is not the criteria to decide if you are not modern or not..the way you think,your outlook towards life,how open you are about various aspects are the ones that decide the so called thing...being modern doesn't even mean that you have to wear revealing clothes or exposing..
    Next time if he tells you that you are not modern,just tell him that if being modern means sleeping around and going to discos,you prefer not to be modern...
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    Tell him to.......BUZZ OFF!!!!

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    Point is what you think about your fashion sense not your ex.......
    if you feel that needs to be worked on........ then work on it..... take advice not criticism from others....

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    Just don't listen to anyone and be yourself. Ask your friends and cousins whats wrong in you looks wise.. if you really feel so.

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    The name Tanya is in Fashion how can you be out of fashion......please marry me this is what you should do...... just joking yaar...

    modern women = long hairs...long heels....lipstick.....iphone...handbang.....access ories....some hip hop dressing....sexy kitten walk.....good sense of humor....flirting......dining...dancing(optional). ..no drinking no sleeping.......

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    In fact you are among those rare gem that any guys would wish to be..... he is a jerk... dont take him seriously... may be he just wanted an opportunity with you so he kept taunting you for not letting him use you... its good that he is your ex not your present bf... jus give him a damn and continue to make your career!!! thats you nothing external should change you..
    I'm a shhh girl
    Loving me could be a crime

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    if you are treating yourself like a puppet of his wishes....Ya surely not a modern woman. Had you been a modern girl, you wouldn't have let him tag you with some title. Sister have some attitude. It's all about MENTALITY....honestly your bf sounds to be living in 80's era....

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    If sleeping around is being modern then U & Ur parents should be proud of U that U r not modern.
    Ur ex is a jerk & Don't worry , U r perfectly fine, lot of guys wish to find someone like U.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sweet Mimi View Post
    In fact you are among those rare gem that any guys would wish to be..... he is a jerk... dont take him seriously...
    Being a guy, I can say with certainty, that you are definitely the one that guys dream of in today's world but cannot get. I completely SECOND the line said by sweet mimi. How I wish somebody like you could be my life partner..........just kidding......

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    Leav tht jerk asap. .. he doesnt deserv u. tell him to find someone modern.
    Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive

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    Modern lady is a lady who does not take crap like this from an ex boyfriend or any other jerk..........
    I Hope They Remember You...



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    In short he is an a**hole and want to sleep with you.
    So avoid him.

    Be simple and good. At 26 years, you are virgin and never been to disco, etc.

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