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    If a man likes a woman but the woman doesn't know whether the man just wants sex or a long term relationship. How to go forward in such a situation? And How can she know his real intentions?

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    Hi! The best thing to do is to be upfront about this- if, that is, you cannot read the signals clearly. The woman can certainly ask what his long term plans are and what exactly he is looking for in the relationship. If he says that he needs time to think it through, then let him think it over and tell her so that at least she can make a conscious decision if that works for her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by suumaya View Post
    If a man likes a woman but the woman doesn't know whether the man just wants sex or a long term relationship. How to go forward in such a situation? And How can she know his real intentions?
    if you are not sure..don't proceed...

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    you cannot be sure of anything, thats why they say you have to have the trust. recently, there was a song in PK on your current situation -
    bin kuch kahe, bin kuch sune haatho me haath liye
    char kadam bas char kadam chal do na mere liye....

    but one question - why do you have to engage in sex. can you not just be in a relationship without sex until some time?

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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    you cannot be sure of anything, thats why they say you have to have the trust. recently, there was a song in PK on your current situation -
    bin kuch kahe, bin kuch sune haatho me haath liye
    char kadam bas char kadam chal do na mere liye....

    but one question - why do you have to engage in sex. can you not just be in a relationship without sex until some time?
    he slept with her during the song itself.....
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    You cannot really know anybody's intentions until you gamble...thats how you learn....if you cant have faith, then forget it....otherwise trust and just go with it..
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    Just follow your heart. Remember the dialogue the kid says in KKKG? Zindagi me agar kuch ban naa ho, kuch haasil karna ho, to sirf apne dil ki suno, aur dil se bhi koi aawaz na aaye to apni dono aankhe band karke....
    You never know what you can become ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by adirocksit View Post
    he slept with her during the song itself.....
    O teri...

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    Dear Suumaya,

    If there is no SEX, there is no long-term relationship. It becomes short. Period

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