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    Hi Preeto mam,
    Me n my girlfriend r in a relationship since last 3 years. I am pursuing my higher studies and she is working. Since last 1 year we are having a long distance relationship cz of her job. Everything was fine till now. From past 1 month she has been telling that she has lost interest in romantic life. Both are busy but make time to chat and speak over the phone regarding our lives n career etc. Now whenever i bring up anything remotely romantic she changes the topic. When I asked her why this sudden change, she replied that she doesn't know. We are not teenagers but very committed. I can understand that its not the only thing in relationship and I thought may b the feelings will come back but now its slightly worrying me. I love her a lot n m supporting her in every way. Is this common in long distance relationships? I badly want this to work.
    Please help us.

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    Hi! Well, unfortunaletely, it is pretty common in long distance relationships that with the lack of physical presence, there are too many gaps that create lacunae in the relationship. Three years, in fact, is a long time and it is possible that she has either just lost interest or is looking for something more with a person who is more 'there'.
    Try and talk with her as to how you can re-kindle the flame and try and work things out, if they can be worked out through communication and stategising how and when you can meet up.

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    wow..............

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    yes, this seems common but I dont think this means worry.

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    Let her go, she is no longer interested, don't be a beggar.

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    dear buddy,,
    a girl losing intrest in romance is possible when she has found someone else. Now you have to fill in the blanks or call it off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ace of base View Post
    dear buddy,,
    a girl losing intrest in romance is possible when she has found someone else. Now you have to fill in the blanks or call it off.
    May be n may not be

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    This is very common is long distance relationship as you are not with her and there is no intimate relationship and i am not saying that you should be intimate before merraige but you know what I mean...

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    Try to meet her with short breaks

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