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    Hello everybody

    Im 28 years old and from Delhi. I am a middle class guy with modest upbringing.

    Whenever I am among friends/relatives... everybody keeps talking about marriage. My friends are all married. And I am of marriageable age.

    The issue is that I dont want to get married. To keep the long story short as to why I dont want to.... Im not marriage material (I dont mean this in a self-hatred way).

    But I am open to dating and relationships (natural selection of humans). But in India... 99% women talk about it... and then if the guy has future plans of marriage... only then she enters into a relationship. I have tried but no girl shows any attraction towards me after initial conversations. Even I lose interest... coz its like dog chasing a car... what to do when the car stops?

    So should I lie about marriage plans to get laid or be in a relationship? Coz if I keep up with that no-marriage talk... then women wont talk to me.

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    No, you certainly must not lie and lead a girl up the garden path. That would be heartbreaking and humiliating for any person. You have decided a path for yourself- no harm in that- but the other person must be prepared to walk that path as well, so be honest about your intentions.

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    Don't lie to get laid or to be in a relationship... That's like giving someone a fake promise and using them.. Be a man enough to be truthful to yourself and others... If it's just physical intimacy that you need,you have other options...
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    Don't lie, just be upfront, still you will get some dates and believe me these girls will be easy to handle as compared to the ones you get on a false 'marriage willingness' pretense.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    do whatever you want, i dont see whats the point of asking on this forum. if you have some dignity, then why would you lie? if you just want sex, then go to an escort. if you lie to a girl, you might have to spend much more money until you reach the getting laid phase. and there is no assurance that spending the money will get you laid. what if your relation ends before sex, then you get a babaji ka thullu....

    with escort services, there is guaranteed sex, no lying, no flower talk. pay the money, get laid and come clean, no tension nothing. and its all discreet, safe and clean.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Enjoy your being single. It is like the old adage: Shaadi ka laddo jo khaye so pachtaye, jo na khaye vah bhi pachtaye.

    There are many girls that too want to be single and have occasional sex without strings attached. You probably haven't found one or unable to click with one. Evaluate your approach and pick-up style and analyze why they do not indulge with you.

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    Feel like kicking u after reading ur query. Do u think we are going to support u for fooling and playing around with innocent girls on false promise of marriage ! what if some guy does same with ur sister?
    When u can easily get prostitutes/escorts why u want to play with some innocent girl by making false promises .. Spend few bucks and enjoy as much as u want.
    Second line of ur query .. I am a middle class guy with "modest" upbringing..lol..
    Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive

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    Dont lie, Just do a better life and find your best love at nrimb.com

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