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    Default Wife thinks I'm still a drug user

    Hey i was a drug addict i went to a rehab for 4 months to quit everything and i did but when i smoke or work late my wife doubts that i still use something

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    Hi! Well, that is unfortunate but sometimes this does happen- its more like she's very wary of it happening again, so she maybe behaving suspiciously. Slowly, she'll be convinced that she does not have to worry any longer and then things will be more relaxed. Give her some time to get used to the fact that you have actually kicked the drug habit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hey i was a drug addict i went to a rehab for 4 months to quit everything and i did but when i smoke or work late my wife doubts that i still use something
    this will be gradual..

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    Get a drug test every month and have the lab send the report directly to your wife.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    Stop smoking too... .
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    just dont react and without getting angry, just be firm on the truth. eventually, your wife should be okay. let her get angry and unreasonable, you stick to the truth.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Ur behavior with her will make her realise in the long run tht u are not an addict any more. Also u can get medical proofs occasionally n show her.
    Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive

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    Well its a long process to actually quit a drug. U have done a good job by managing to quit the drug , however it must b remembered that there is still a high chance of relapse. Plus it needs no telling that earning the trust back is still more difficult. My suggestion just be strong and keep up the good job. Eventually ppl will start trusting u again. Remember that she might be doing this due to concern for u. Try to understand her perspective too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rahulkk View Post
    .....she might be doing this due to concern for u. Try to understand her perspective too.
    wise words....think about this too....
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Post Pls read my text very carefully

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hey i was a drug addict i went to a rehab for 4 months to quit everything and i did but when i smoke or work late my wife doubts that i still use something
    I am also a recovering addict. I have given up drugs near to five years ago. still my family members think for me about taking drug. If you went to a rehab, you must know the serenity prayer. So try to change yourself not to others. you can't stop their thinking. You may know it is a treatment of time. If you spent much time without drug automatically you can regain everything. Remember it is as like as diabetics, there is no medicine for not to taking drugs but you can control this to follow some rules you may know. Just avoid every person without your family(If not addict, if your mother is addict you have to leave her. like this), every place. It is the best for every recovering addict to change the place he lived during his drug life. So brother don't be angry just wait for the time, it will cure everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hey i was a drug addict i went to a rehab for 4 months to quit everything and i did but when i smoke or work late my wife doubts that i still use something


    Quite rightfully the ball is in her court to think whatever isn't it? and she is doing it only because she cares, the trust will regain with some time till then actions will speak louder than any explanations, just keep your nose clean always
    So may it be

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