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    Hi mam

    i dont know where to start
    me and my Gf have been dating for 5years this year , last weekend here brother asked me to leave the house when i went to visit here , cause he assumed i was lying to them about something , and my Gf didn't stand up for me after 5 years of dating and 6 years of knowing her she just turned here head when i was asked to leave mam. and it really hurts that the girl i love after 5 years she couldn't stand up for me. at this moment we are currently apart she wants to decide what she wants to do? i don't even know what that means. she still believes here brother after i showed her proof that im not lying but still. here brother is pron for his lies mam , he has lied to his Fam , borrowed money from me and didn't have the decency to return after almost a year of asking and she knows all this. mam i dont know what to do after her letting me down and not even saying a word on my behalf , its like i dont feel a thing i dont care anymore but i love her and i dont want to throw away that 5 years mam please help

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    Hi! Yes, I can totally understand the sense of hopelessness and shock that you must be feeling right now. 6 years is a very long time of investment in a relationship and one thinks that one knows one's partner well enough in this period.
    However, this may be a time to reflect on the reality of the relationship. See where it is really going and if she is as invested in it as you are. however, do give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she's torn between you and her brother at the moment and she may need some time to get her fundas in order as well.

    Give it some time...let her think the situation through and then see where you both are at!

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    looks like there is nothing you can do until your gf or someone tells you what is wrong. so i can understand your frustration, but there is no "action" that you can take here as of now.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    I think you have lost a GF as well as self respect. So move on.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    I like it.
    bhaiya aap ki officially lag chuki hai.
    aap apni mashooqa se saaf saaf shabdo mein pooche ki wo chahti kya hai. kya wo aap par vishwas karegi ya aap zindagi mein aage badhne ki tayari karein.
    bhaiya sabse pehle toh aap maansik roop se tayar rahe ki wo aap ko kabhi bhi chhod sakti hain.

    udhaar wapas le lein sale se. warna laundi toh jayegi hi jayegi chhod kar poonji bhai chat kar jayega.

    agar wo ladki jyada nazayaz chu chapad kare toh isey bhagwan ki marzi samjhein aur uska tyaag kar dein.

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    hi mam , thank you so much for ur advice and i am giving her time and i am taking time to myself to think everything thru

    Rv thank you , thats true there is no action i can take but think

    oOO sorry bhai , i never loose mt self respect thats something no can ever take away from me

    aur sexena bhai my hindi is not good , could u please translate for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by JT12 View Post
    hi mam , thank you so much for ur advice and i am giving her time and i am taking time to myself to think everything thru

    Rv thank you , thats true there is no action i can take but think

    oOO sorry bhai , i never loose mt self respect thats something no can ever take away from me

    aur sexena bhai my hindi is not good , could u please translate for me
    I like it.
    sure brother. I keep visiting England so my English is perfect too.
    u are officially ****ed brother.
    u need to ask ur gf in straight words wat she wants in this relationship. whether she trusts u or not or whether u should prepare to move ahead in life.
    brother first of all u should be mentally prepared dat she can leave u anytime to the whims of her brother.

    take ur money back from the brother. otherwise both the gal might leave u anytime and the money will be digested by the brother.
    in case she speaks unnecessary blah blah and insults u when u talk to her- think of it as gods will and leave her urself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JT12 View Post
    hi mam , thank you so much for ur advice and i am giving her time and i am taking time to myself to think everything thru

    Rv thank you , thats true there is no action i can take but think

    oOO sorry bhai , i never loose mt self respect thats something no can ever take away from me

    aur sexena bhai my hindi is not good , could u please translate for me
    I like it.
    I like it bhaiya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anokhe lal saxena View Post
    ....tayar rahe ki wo aap ko kabhi bhi chhod sakti hain.
    yaha wo ladki dhang se baat nahi kar rahi aur aap keh rahe ki wo direct.....sakti hai !!!!
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    i like it.
    I like it rv bhaiya.

    **** nahi chhod (leave).
    badi zalim cheez hain aap. I like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    yaha wo ladki dhang se baat nahi kar rahi aur aap keh rahe ki wo direct.....sakti hai !!!!
    translation RV bhai my hindi is not good

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    Quote Originally Posted by JT12 View Post
    translation RV bhai my hindi is not good
    the joke would lose its meaning if translated. dont worry it was a side joke not on you or your situation....
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Quote Originally Posted by anokhe lal saxena View Post
    i like it.
    I like it rv bhaiya.

    **** nahi chhod (leave).
    badi zalim cheez hain aap. I like it.
    ohh, ek "h" sentence ka poora meaning badal sakta hai.....
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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