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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    one day he will bring boss his boss home and ask you to *** his rod. his justification: ohh i take care of you, cant you take care of my promotion....

    time to say no is now, not when you are bent in front of his boss.
    i think she would have understood the point with earlier comments..this wasn't required

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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    one day he will bring boss his boss home and ask you to *** his rod. his justification: ohh i take care of you, cant you take care of my promotion....time to say no is now, not when you are bent in front of his boss.
    Quote Originally Posted by prabhendu View Post
    i think she would have understood the point with earlier comments..this wasn't required
    People here are trying to help a woman so that she may stand up against that pervert and his sick acts. Kindly don't exploit her problem and comment in your fantasy infected perverted assumption. Just because she is a guest user doesn't mean you can disrespect her. Be appropriate.
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    Let him stay angry. After 2-3 weeks he will become normal.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by NavelFanatic View Post
    People here are trying to help a woman so that she may stand up against that pervert and his sick acts. Kindly don't exploit her problem and comment in your fantasy infected perverted assumption. Just because she is a guest user doesn't mean you can disrespect her. Be appropriate.

    totally agree with this because many times i have communicated with problem posters through pm and they said they felt bad with certain comments. we are adult we need to respect people who have problems and posted here! sometime they may really take this personally.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Good Day maam. I am 29f. I m a working girl nd have been married for a year. My husband is good as a person. He takes care of me, never says no to me and in a way my marriage is perfect. But whn it comes to bed I am finding it hard to satisfy himm. I m not very expeeimental there and he is. He always tries new things believing it would spice it up. I agree but sometimes I don't like a few but he is not accepting a no. He always says that if he is so caring and loving then can't I do only this much for him. I agree. Altho things like anal and all are not my thing. A few days back he asked me to try watersports in bed. I didn't knw what it meant so read about it. I was shocked and disgusted. This time I said a final no. He got angry and since that day he is not talking to me properly and things are not alright. What should I do maam?
    I think ur husband is too much into inventing new moves. just hv a discussion face to face that sex is a mutual setup where both partners should be entertained. in ur case ur husband finds n numbers to keep his fetishes alive. u hv to speak and make him understand. like suppose ur fetish is strap-on anal ****ing ur husband. wud ur husband will comply. so tell him ur reservation. if u dont u wud suffer now watersport then he wud demand threesome n so on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mysticmantra View Post
    I think ur husband is too much into inventing new moves. just hv a discussion face to face that sex is a mutual setup where both partners should be entertained. in ur case ur husband finds n numbers to keep his fetishes alive. u hv to speak and make him understand. like suppose ur fetish is strap-on anal ****ing ur husband. wud ur husband will comply. so tell him ur reservation. if u dont u wud suffer now watersport then he wud demand threesome n so on.
    You know this is not that bad an idea... think about it. He said he cares about you and everything... and I am sure he does. This is not as serious as it sounds. This happens to every couple at some time. Being straightforward may not be as fruitful as one would hope in this case because sexual rejection no matter how weird the fetish is also hurtful. I would personally say yes to the watersports.... but say only if it was to happen in the bathroom so you can have the shower running.... but before any of that is to happen you tell him that you have a lot of reservations in doing this so he must perform some sexual act that you already know he hates. I hope for your sake he says no... Then you can teach him a lesson on NO MEANS NO...

    Use manipulation to counteract manipulation. He will probably see through it but at least you have your basis covered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Good Day maam. I am 29f. I m a working girl nd have been married for a year. My husband is good as a person. He takes care of me, never says no to me and in a way my marriage is perfect. But whn it comes to bed I am finding it hard to satisfy himm. I m not very expeeimental there and he is. He always tries new things believing it would spice it up. I agree but sometimes I don't like a few but he is not accepting a no. He always says that if he is so caring and loving then can't I do only this much for him. I agree. Altho things like anal and all are not my thing. A few days back he asked me to try watersports in bed. I didn't knw what it meant so read about it. I was shocked and disgusted. This time I said a final no. He got angry and since that day he is not talking to me properly and things are not alright. What should I do maam?





    Hi,

    I would suggest you should least try what he says once. You might start liking it.
    and can have happy life.

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    Sorry, probably you didn't get what water sports is! its a fetish mainly involving urine and then blood, saliva etc. That hubby is a porn addict and pervert. She can not consider this for juicing up married life!


    Quote Originally Posted by abhinawal View Post
    Well, a NO means NO but a relation is always based on mutual adjustments, agreements, respect for each other and fulfilling each other's desires. Now your husband has some desires, few you might fulfill or you have have some other way to spice the sexual life of yours. I'm not at all suggesting that you should succumb under his pressure but spicing up things will help your relation to him. Turning a cold ear to his desires completely might only turn relation sour.

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    Dear ......,
    I registered just to reply to you. You absolutely did the right thing. Your hubby is a porn addict who has blurred lines or already crossed the line (in his mind) and trying to live his fetishes. One thing with fetishes is that they grow, get darker and consume that person. And sorry to say, he seems to be manipulating your emotion. You need to stay strong and have frank discussion with him, preferably visit a psychiatrist together.
    God bless

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    Quote Originally Posted by g_gagan View Post
    Hi,

    I would suggest you should least try what he says once. You might start liking it.
    and can have happy life.
    Sorry, probably you didn't get what water sports is! its a fetish mainly involving urine and then blood, saliva etc. That hubby is a porn addict and pervert. She can not consider this for juicing up married life!

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    Quote Originally Posted by truth soldier View Post
    Sorry, probably you didn't get what water sports is! its a fetish mainly involving urine and then blood, saliva etc. That hubby is a porn addict and pervert. She can not consider this for juicing up married life!
    dude, he IS the hubby (my personal opinion). thats why he seems to be suggesting that she should give it a try.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    See this is completely on you that you want to say Yes or No, but think about his perspective whats wrong if e wants everything from you only. He is not going out to fulfil his wishes. If you will not fulfil his desire he will definitely look out for them, this is human nature. So try to understand things from his point of view.

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    Quote Originally Posted by master07 View Post
    See this is completely on you that you want to say Yes or No, but think about his perspective whats wrong if e wants everything from you only. He is not going out to fulfil his wishes. If you will not fulfil his desire he will definitely look out for them, this is human nature. So try to understand things from his point of view.
    husband made another id....this is getting out of hands...
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    I didnt know watersports so I searched and its messed up man......it....is....SICK!!!....I dont even understand why would anybody be into it....
    I Hope They Remember You...



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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    dude, he IS the hubby (my personal opinion). thats why he seems to be suggesting that she should give it a try.
    I am not the "hubby" but some one that is into fetish i.e. high heels.
    I was also scared to tell my girl freinds that people are going to call me "porn addict" "live his fetishes" "psychiatrist"

    But I would say we both are having the best time of your life.

    So I advised the topic starter to try it least once.

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