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    I am a guy 28 who likes a girl 27 and both are really into each other. We are getting to know each other like grown up mature adults. But our mothers are not in favour due to Horoscope mismatch. What to do to convince them as both of them (mothers) fear these astrological predictions ? JUST HOW TO MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND

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    A couple who are in love and having a great compatibility shouldn't be separated just because their horoscopes don't match... Let no human tear apart a couple that are joined by God.. Convincing your parents depends on you both now... Like,how hard you try and how badly you both want to be with each others... Let your parents realise that you both can't give up on each others... Eventually they will give in...
    It might seem tough,but it will be worth it.. Letting go of things without even fighting for it might turn out to be a major regret later...
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    stop convincing them.....just do what you desire to do. convincing mothers on such matters is like convincing terrorists of dropping their weapons...cant be done....
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    If you can show then that despite your horoscope mismatch you are compatible and remain committed to each other then eventually the facts will out weigh the fear of your mothers. Stay strong and let your actions do the talking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by confused_butterfly View Post
    If you can show then that despite your horoscope mismatch you are compatible and remain committed to each other then eventually the facts will out weigh the fear of your mothers. Stay strong and let your actions do the talking.
    horoscope is about the future, not the present. so mothers will always have a counter-argument that future relation is in danger even if they are compatible now.

    its not about proving, its about the belief. can you prove that there is God? no, still people believe. can you prove that there is no God? no? still people dont respect religion.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    horoscope is about the future, not the present. so mothers will always have a counter-argument that future relation is in danger even if they are compatible now.

    its not about proving, its about the belief. can you prove that there is God? no, still people believe. can you prove that there is no God? no? still people dont respect religion.

    True... but better to have a strong relationship than a bad one. If their relationship doesn't work then their mothers will blame that on their horoscope incompatibility too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zodiacTroubled View Post
    I am a guy 28 who likes a girl 27 and both are really into each other. We are getting to know each other like grown up mature adults. But our mothers are not in favour due to Horoscope mismatch. What to do to convince them as both of them (mothers) fear these astrological predictions ? JUST HOW TO MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND

    Can't do anything really other than go against their wishes. You may not believe in that but they do. It is what it is.
    So may it be

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    Just elope with her. Else try bribing the pandit to issue a favorable statement.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by zodiacTroubled View Post
    I am a guy 28 who likes a girl 27 and both are really into each other. We are getting to know each other like grown up mature adults. But our mothers are not in favour due to Horoscope mismatch. What to do to convince them as both of them (mothers) fear these astrological predictions ? JUST HOW TO MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND
    Just stop convincing them to give up for astrology, as faith of these kind are normally not affected by logic. Only convince them that they and you have no other option. Only convince them that you both have good compatibility and are not separable under any circumstance. They will understand you as they love you more than they love astrology.

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    Hi! I think, you've had some pretty good suggestions from the users (except the elopement one). There's not much I can add to these. Staying committed and convinced and firm is the way out of a belief system that beats logic.

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