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    My boyfriend took mine intimate photographs during one session. In the heat of the moment I too agreed. Later I realized how harmful such things can be and told him to delete them. He said that he already did. But I don't belueve him. Because I just don't trust him. I know I am a fool and shoyldnt have got involved in it I the first place. I am afraid if our relationship hits the rock he might upload them somewhere. I have often caught him watching mms and such pics. How should I confront him? How would I be sure that he really deleted my picrures?

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    Hmm, well, you really cannot be sure that he has in fact deleted your pictures or even stored them in some other device. This behaviour is really dangerous and foolish and always leads to no good at all...you all read and hear about it but then think that you can get away with it!
    Anyway, its best if you can ask an adult to intervene in this matter and try and get the pictures out of this fellow. Even if he is not going yo misuse them, you should protect yourself by telling a competent adult who can take the situation in her/ his own hands and treat it in a mature manner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    My boyfriend took mine intimate photographs during one session. In the heat of the moment I too agreed. Later I realized how harmful such things can be and told him to delete them. He said that he already did. But I don't belueve him. Because I just don't trust him. I know I am a fool and shoyldnt have got involved in it I the first place. I am afraid if our relationship hits the rock he might upload them somewhere. I have often caught him watching mms and such pics. How should I confront him? How would I be sure that he really deleted my picrures?
    Love comes with trust... You don't have trust in him in first place and I wonder how you could even get into bed with someone like that... Is your relationship love based or list based? You don't trust him,says that he is your boyfriend.. Had sex with him.. And still let him photograph you.. Now there's nothing much you can do about it... Just keep a faith that he has already deleted them or that it won't be leaked...
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    U girls are fools. What was the need of photosession? U girls always do mistake. And this is a very big mistake.

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    There's no way around you or anyone else will ever come to know whether he deleted those pics or not.
    So stop worrying . If you see it on internet/if he tries to blackmail you, God forbid, file a complaint in Police station till then just assume he deleted.
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    stop worrying, there is nothing you can do. in the worst case that he puts them online, file a complaint, the law is on your side. make sure you subtly mention that you are ok with resorting to legal help if the situation comes to that. this will send him a message. if still he goes ahead and puts them online, send us a link.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    You cant be sure, he might have kept a copy somewhere to use in worst case. He might just lie to you and say that he has deleted it, he might swear on god, his parents, anything but only he knows if he has deleted all copies or not.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    My boyfriend took mine intimate photographs during one session. In the heat of the moment I too agreed. Later I realized how harmful such things can be and told him to delete them. He said that he already did. But I don't belueve him. Because I just don't trust him. I know I am a fool and shoyldnt have got involved in it I the first place. I am afraid if our relationship hits the rock he might upload them somewhere. I have often caught him watching mms and such pics. How should I confront him? How would I be sure that he really deleted my picrures?
    Well, there is really no way to ascertain that he deletes the photographs. There are only some tricks you can use on him like you can ask him to show photographs to you as you are missing those moments or something like that and he might spill the beans. Secondly you can ask some trustworthy guardian or you parents to intervene and sort out things for you without loosing cool.
    It's all about trust now.
    Anyway, if he takes any step to upload pics to internet, please make it sure to file complaint with police.

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    Calm down. It doesn't matter. A man needs his hot pics. Continue with your life and move on.

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    we yes mistake is done & a big one.. now just cribbibg on it lets find some solution..
    love.. love n love.. try to talk to him with soft & love words & get a real confession out of him that whether he has deleted all photos or kept in some laptop computer..
    tell him some lies/seduce him but try to get truth out of him without getitng angry or breaking up.. Once u get right information make sure you confront him-delete the pics & break off.
    Also do some secret recording of your talk ..So that you also have something in your hand to negotiate in worst case if he tries to blackmail u in future anytime..
    Be prepared for worst also !!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    My boyfriend took mine intimate photographs during one session. In the heat of the moment I too agreed. Later I realized how harmful such things can be and told him to delete them. He said that he already did. But I don't belueve him. Because I just don't trust him. I know I am a fool and shoyldnt have got involved in it I the first place. I am afraid if our relationship hits the rock he might upload them somewhere. I have often caught him watching mms and such pics. How should I confront him? How would I be sure that he really deleted my picrures?
    I understand your frustration and the other posters have given you good advice. Nowadays, nude photos on the Internet have become very common and are not considered shameful as they once were in the past.

    my sister experienced the exact same thing where her partner posted them online. Since this is now a common occurrence and no longer taboo, everybody comforted my sister in avery supporting manner.

    we all saw the photos, including my parents, but no one was angry with her. So just to say that you may be surprised as to the number of people who have posted on line these days...

    regards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paralysis View Post
    I understand your frustration and the other posters have given you good advice. Nowadays, nude photos on the Internet have become very common and are not considered shameful as they once were in the past.

    my sister experienced the exact same thing where her partner posted them online. Since this is now a common occurrence and no longer taboo, everybody comforted my sister in avery supporting manner.

    we all saw the photos, including my parents, but no one was angry with her. So just to say that you may be surprised as to the number of people who have posted on line these days...

    regards.
    wow, thanks for the comforting words. i am sure it will help the OP here. just curious -
    are you trying to say that you all were surfing the websites and just stumbled upon your sister's pics?
    or you all deliberately went to the website after learning about it, asked her for the link and did samuhik darshan of the pics?
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    wow, thanks for the comforting words. i am sure it will help the OP here. just curious -
    are you trying to say that you all were surfing the websites and just stumbled upon your sister's pics?
    or you all deliberately went to the website after learning about it, asked her for the link and did samuhik darshan of the pics?
    When my sister stressed herself out to a very high level, my father sat her down and talked her through with comforting words. Dad went on to the site after she told him about it. Dad went on to the naturist sites and showed her that being nude in front of family is nothing to be ashamed of.

    I went on to the site with her too, assuring her that it was nothing to be ashamed of. Other members of the family did the same thing, which resulted in her coming out of her depressive state...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paralysis View Post
    I understand your frustration and the other posters have given you good advice. Nowadays, nude photos on the Internet have become very common and are not considered shameful as they once were in the past.

    my sister experienced the exact same thing where her partner posted them online. Since this is now a common occurrence and no longer taboo, everybody comforted my sister in avery supporting manner.

    we all saw the photos, including my parents, but no one was angry with her. So just to say that you may be surprised as to the number of people who have posted on line these days...

    regards.
    What a family! Watching the naked pictures of their daughter / sister together! Your family watches porn together?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paralysis View Post
    When my sister stressed herself out to a very high level, my father sat her down and talked her through with comforting words. Dad went on to the site after she told him about it. Dad went on to the naturist sites and showed her that being nude in front of family is nothing to be ashamed of.

    I went on to the site with her too, assuring her that it was nothing to be ashamed of. Other members of the family did the same thing, which resulted in her coming out of her depressive state...
    if its not taboo and okay with you guys, even I would like to comfort your sister by watching her nude pics. pls send the link...
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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