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    i dont know where to start from but here it goes its been nearly 3 months i am having irregular periods which disturbed me alt and my husband not been supportive at all. every responsibility is mine looking after kids, his mother. doing house chores and doing shopping in that condition which i think its not good for my health on the top i have had flu for a week and hes not bothered at all.

    all he do is sits in the house he has been jobless from 3 months and hes not bothered to look for job. now he said if you cant do those house work i'll bring other wife who can look after me, kids and his mother and i can leave the house.i dont know where to start from but here it goes its been nearly 3 months i am having irregular periods which disturbed me alt and my husband not been supportive at all. every responsibility is mine looking after kids, his mother. doing house chores and doing shopping in that condition which i think its not good for my health on the top i have had flu for a week and hes not bothered at all.

    all he do is sits in the house he has been jobless from 3 months and hes not bothered to look for job. now he said if you cant do those house work i'll bring other wife who can look after me, kids and his mother and i can leave the house.
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    Well, it may be rather more difficult for him to find another wife who will agree to look after him, his mom, his kids and deal with his joblessness. So, that's the least of your worries. What you do need to think about is how to deal with the lack of money and support.
    Are you an educated person? Think of how you can be independent and manage to earn some money to support yourself rather than depending on what your husband is doling out to you. There are always options if you look for them....

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    nothing can be done if he turns blind eye to issues. first thing you need to do is make him realize that there is a problem. clearly, your complaining is not working. so i suggest that you do only the essential work and let the other work just sit. dont take care of his mother, cleaning, anything else. once he comes to confront, this is the time he is now listening to you. make sure you explain to him politely all the issues, try not to argue because then he will again go into "not listening" mode. also, the threats about another wife are hollow ignore them.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    i dont know where to start from but here it goes its been nearly 3 months i am having irregular periods which disturbed me alt and my husband not been supportive at all. every responsibility is mine looking after kids, his mother. doing house chores and doing shopping in that condition which i think its not good for my health on the top i have had flu for a week and hes not bothered at all.

    all he do is sits in the house he has been jobless from 3 months and hes not bothered to look for job. now he said if you cant do those house work i'll bring other wife who can look after me, kids and his mother and i can leave the house.i dont know where to start from but here it goes its been nearly 3 months i am having irregular periods which disturbed me alt and my husband not been supportive at all. every responsibility is mine looking after kids, his mother. doing house chores and doing shopping in that condition which i think its not good for my health on the top i have had flu for a week and hes not bothered at all.

    all he do is sits in the house he has been jobless from 3 months and hes not bothered to look for job. now he said if you cant do those house work i'll bring other wife who can look after me, kids and his mother and i can leave the house.
    this looks like a dead end..
    you might want to bring in senior people in the loop.
    it can be your parents or his parents.

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    Have him bring another wife, then sue him for polygamy and get a divorce. Also see a gynecologist on your own meanwhile.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    you are not being helpful here lady. You did not tell us what your husband used to do. How much was he able to make(money). how much funds you have. Your family background(financially). Your education. His education. How many kids you have. How old are they? you gave us incomplete query.

    So we just know You have irregular periods, jobless husband, 2 (or more) kids.

    1.Assuming your husband confident enough about getting new wife may suggest. Your husband has inheritance from his father (like land etc). Which is in your favor.
    2. your main query was irregular period. Also suggest the family can survive even after your husband being jobless.
    3. Husbands attitude (sitting on his *** all day), you more worried about flu/ other wife / irregular periods than finances also suggests money isn't the real matter here.

    So lady kick your husband on his butt and leave the kids on the father's (your husband) mercy and go to your parental home. spend 1 month there. You may feel better (or worse, thinking about other wife). Law doesnt allow him to marry again without divorce. If he does so get a good lawyer.

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