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    I am married for last 18 Months to my GF after 2 years of relationship. We have a love Marriage.. I love her very much. We have a very active sex life also. And she is very attractive.

    But i have a thing in me always , through which my eyes always turn towards a hot girl/lady seen on road, office campus , trains etc. i always browse through porn sites. And always my this nature gives me a sense of guilt in my heart.
    Is there is something wrong with me. Also I am like this since 11th or 12th grade.

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    Well, you know, just because you are married, it doesn't necessarily mean you are blind! Its natural to admire beauty, just as long as it remains limited to just admiring from afar and not making any derogatory comparisons.
    As far as watching porn is concerned- that's your personal decision. As long as you are adult and its not impacting your life.

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    seeing attractive females at public places is normal. most men do that, married or not.

    regarding porn, you are just doing it because you are used to it. you need to cut down. does your wife know about it? if not, then subtly mention it to her and that you want to improve on this bad habit. if she finds out without you telling, it might lead to unnecessary ruckus.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    All men do it.......There's nothing wrong in it.
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    Wait for 5-10 years, your testosterone levels will start dropping from where they are now, then you will be struggling to be like what you are now. It happens with age.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am married for last 18 Months to my GF after 2 years of relationship. We have a love Marriage.. I love her very much. We have a very active sex life also. And she is very attractive.

    But i have a thing in me always , through which my eyes always turn towards a hot girl/lady seen on road, office campus , trains etc. i always browse through porn sites. And always my this nature gives me a sense of guilt in my heart.
    Is there is something wrong with me. Also I am like this since 11th or 12th grade.
    attraction to porn is not uncommon..
    but that means you have a lot of free time and mind...
    occupy yourself

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    It would be abnormal if you didn't look. Nothing wrong providing you do not allow yourself to get into a position where you actually do cheat on her
    So may it be

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    - and what makes you think that she doesn't look !
    So may it be

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    one for the record

    So may it be

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    bro what u r doing is perfectly fine unless u start losing ur fidelity. ogling pretty gals and watching porn is fine until it doesnt affect ur marriage. u shud understand love n lust. so decide what u want love or lust.

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    Its natural dude.
    Keep up!

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    People who are about to enter their grave also look at females of all ages so don't worry be happy....as you have an attractive partner keep your eyes on her....

    as far as adult movies are concerned try to skip them as they are the major source of frustration.......dont say i cant do it.....if there is a will there is a way....good luck......

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    It's so natural to get attracted towards other beautiful ones. Please if get the chance go ahead. Be a little flirty. Be a little naughty. But just one thing. Don't force or pressurize the other partner no matter what. Try to make clear to them that you are married. In fact it's my personal experience that here in India female fall easily for a married male. I make it clear to them straight away that our relation is because I find you attractive and won't leave my family for anyone, no matter what. Honestly I too love my wife deeply. But can't stop this urge. So if a female is ready, I'm double ready..as simple as that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by F se Rocking! View Post
    Its natural dude. Keep up!
    Exactly what you are doing is done by 95% of married men. Men secretly like variety & tendency is always to be promiscuous, though now women are almost catching up on that department. Only difference is very few men would admit, what you are frankly saying. As long it is just a fantasy & you don't end up sleeping with random women/young girls who may actually tempt you, I don't think what you are doing is anything wrong or can be called cheating. Relax, enjoy & about the porn too, did you invite your wife anytime to watch with you? You already have a great sex-life...if she likes watching porn then occasionally it can spice up your sex life even further.
    Last edited by artonsenna; 27-11-2016 at 09:06 PM. Reason: correction

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    very normal ............

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