Hi..
I'm a 27 year old woman. I got married last year. it was an arranged marriage, so during my first night, I told my husband that Im not ready to have sex as I want to understand him better before having sex.. he was completely supportive and told me that even he feels the same. we traveled a lot in the first 3 months of our marriage and I really started loving my husband. I told him that I'm ready..
but my husbands parents came to live with us for 6 months and since we live in a 1 bedroom apartment, we could not do anything as we had no privacy and they would keep coming to our bedroom all the time.. it's not that we dint do anything. we used to kiss and make out, but it never went beyond that.
my in laws left last month. i thought that we can finally have sex atleast now, but in this one month, he made out with me just 2 times. every night, he tells me that he's tired and goes to sleep.. on weekends, he watches TV till late night and then tells me that he's sleepy and falls asleep.. i feel really bad..
except this, he's a really good guy. he helps me in the kitchen, he's very loving and understanding.. and has no other bad habits. he does not go out unnecessary..
I dont know what's wrong.. first I thought il talk to him about this. I've told him several times that I'm ready.. I dont want to keep telling it and seem desperate.. what can I do??
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