Getting involved in gossip

[ilona.devereaux@gmail.com]

Hi there. I fell out with a friend, lets say her name is T and said some bad things to my other friend A. I have subsequently made friends with T again and my housemate,friend A, who i discussed matters with told T that I said some ugly things about her. Who is actually my friend here. I feel so upset

[Preeto Maam]

Hi! Its natural that when you fall out with someone, you do tend to get bitter about them and say mean things about them. the sad thing is that they sometimes come back to haunt us, as you are now discovering for yourself.
Now, you have two options:
1. totally deny having said anything about her
2. Tell her honestly that you were miffed and upset and so spoke some things about her about which you are sorry.

[o00]

No one is your friend, you are not a friend of anyone either, just let it be and move on.

[adirocksit]

Women.............

[rv102938]

both A and T look to be friends of each other here. you have reason to be upset but you should be upset with yourself for gossiping about your friend. just say sorry for what happened and ask for forgiveness.