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    I had been married since 3 year but we haven't had a sex till now. We both are virgin. We had tried on many time but failed. My wife feel lot of pain she says when i try to insert. And because of that i think she is not interested in sex. I love her and she loves me too. But now i don't know how to convince her for sex as she refuse all time when i ask her.

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    Hmm, well, listen. maybe you should try and get romantic before you get sexual. Be more 'into' one another and get familiar with each other and after that, think about deeper physical intimacy. Right now, you've both developed a sort of a fear of sex. Get more comfortable with one another- the wish to get sexua;l should happen automatically.

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    See a doctor, go with your wife.
    You never know what you can become ..

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    3 years or 3 days?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ariesgirl View Post
    3 years or 3 days?
    or 3 hours? .
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    first check if she is indeed a straight woman and has made an attempt. if that checks out, then -

    i cant type the whole thing here but i will try to tell you the jist.

    you need to ask her if there is anything that arouses her. try watching erotic movies, porn or it can be anything - cuddling, dancing together....once you think she is little aroused, just go a little further, carress her and see what is working. if something works, pursue that and throw away things that dont work. remember its an art to make a female fall for you, you might have to make several attempts...slowly slowly do something more and there will be a point of no return for her when she would want to do it. ofc, her resistance will come back at the time of actual intercourse. here you have to be a man, and sort of be a little forcy (dont get me wrong), but a little dominance here would help. remember, women love their partner to dominate them in a certain sexual way. its an art, practice it and you should be able to go all the way.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    You and your wife have developed fear of having sex. The way to get out of it to make your mind realize that it is not a big deal. You will have to convince your wife that the pain she will endure will not be more than the pleasure she will get. Do not go straight for intercourse. Watch lot of porn together... Foreplay is the key for you... You should read about it and get an idea how to make her reach the level that she begs you to get inside her....Tell her you are not going to do it ... you are just playing... make her relax.. make her wet ... if she is always dry even after foreplay you should try lubrication...
    If you get nervous or lose *****ion you should see the doctor...
    just do it once...
    but if she has persistent unbearable pain every time you should see a doctor.
    Don't wait anymore....

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    first off, your condition is grounds for voidable marriage under Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.




    This is against my "better judgement"...

    Both lie naked on a cold floor and smoke some weed (marijuana). It will give you urge to have unprotected sex and also acts as relief againstany pain. Up the ante if required by watching porn from "babes network". Good luck or Good fcuk, whatever is appropriate in this case.
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    this is a really stressful situation.. its painful for most women... it requires a strong willingness to be patient.. do a lot of foreplay.. let her feel you will not enter just play around,, rubbing with her and stop without getting in.. let her feel you intend only to play around and then one day you enter... because thats the only way if you will wait for her to let you in it will never happen.. 3 yrs is too much.. work on it wisely and do this trick. good luck
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    1) Ask if she is able to masturbate.
    2) Buy lube.... use your fingers.... then try bigger things.
    3) Go to a doctor...she may have some underlying medical reason for the pain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by confused_butterfly View Post
    1) Ask if she is able to masturbate.
    2) Buy lube.... use your fingers.... then try bigger things.
    3) Go to a doctor...she may have some underlying medical reason for the pain.
    Perfect answer

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    Puch lo apni wife se kisi aur se to nhi sex krti? Ajkal ki ladkiyo ka koi bharosa nhi shadi kisi aur se sex kisi aur se. Puch lo bhai. Watsapp check kro uska

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    Pucho kisi aur se to nhi pyar krti ho? Ajkal kisi ka bharosa nhi. Shadi kisi aur se sex kisi aur se. Puch lo bhai

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    Strange, it feels

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    There's a condition called vaginismus, where any insertion into the vagina would cause pain. Please consult a gynaecologist and get it checked. There are medications and exercises for it. But please consult a doctor after having a serious thorough talk with your wife.

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