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    I'm 29 female, married for 3 months, I don't enjoy sex (though I fake it to my husband). I like foreplay bt intercourse has never given me any pleasure. I want to ask will this effect in getting pregnant?

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    Hi!

    No, sexual enjoyment and pregnancy are not related.

    Having said that, there is no reason that you cannot have enjoyment from sex, specially when you enjoy the foreplay. many women do not orgasm during intercourse but need clitoral stimulation to do so. It would be best that you tell/ show/ indicate to your husband as to what pleases you and make that a part of your sexual routine so that you enjoy sex.

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    There is no relation between sexual enjoyment and pregnancy. You can get pregnant even if you don't enjoy sex.
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    there are not...happing ending.......

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    no, getting pregnant will only give you an excuse not to have sex so it will actually work in your favour. but anyway. you should share this with your husband, maybe he needs to try something different so that you enjoy. enjoying sex is important and lack of it can have effect on your relationship.
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    They are not related, you dont even need to have sex, he can put his come in a spoon and insert that spoon, that will be enough.
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    you must enjoy it
    no way u cant

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    No they are not related but let me tell you one thing for sure.... you are pushing yourself into life time of shit.... firstly by faking things you are ensuring that your husband can never create pleasure for you.... secondly you are throwing away a chance of out of the world pleasure for whole life.... if you won't fake it... at least it will help him try different ways.... you can guide him through the way you get most pleasure... Yes, for now it may be important for you to get pregnant as newly wed but what about after getting 2 to 3 children.... your love life would be dry ... you will be so busy with children that you won't give him time because it would be useless for you.... he would get irritated and it may result in finding some one else and leaving you....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I'm 29 female, married for 3 months, I don't enjoy sex (though I fake it to my husband). I like foreplay bt intercourse has never given me any pleasure. I want to ask will this effect in getting pregnant?
    pleasure out of sex doesnt come in single attempt. arousal n orgasm vital parts of sex. u find foreplay arousing. u shud talk with ur husband to extend foreplay. secondly intercourse for women is a hefty affair not like men. it requires practice to actually enjoy sex. i think u r experiencing pain due to penetration. use some good lubricant n u will feel difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I'm 29 female, married for 3 months, I don't enjoy sex (though I fake it to my husband). I like foreplay bt intercourse has never given me any pleasure. I want to ask will this effect in getting pregnant?
    No it is not related...

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    great .................

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    yes ............................

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