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    Quote Originally Posted by oceanseleven80 View Post
    Unfortunately that's the truth.
    We are coded to choose from options. Take an example of arranged marriage. Parents look for a girl who is fair, whose limbs are perfect should have a voice of nightingale should not have a scar on the face etc etc.
    Hence, you want to choose or you want to be chosen is upto you. (see you have options here too ;P ). Make a choice and stick to it.
    I believe thats the best answer among all I read. Yes it is an unfortunate truth that humans always are attracted to something animate or inanimate which is visually appealing & being fat whether it is either for a guy or girl is definitely not the quality to make heads turn for either sex. Having said that I can safely say that there are many overweight girls who have fiancees/boyfriends/husbands & most of them are very happy with their partners. From a purely personal opinion I can tell you that for me the biggest turn off in a girl is being on the heavier side, again I repeat that is only personal opinion. Beauty lies in the beholder's eye so there would be someone who would look beyond the physical appearance & you would get your Mr. right soon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oceanseleven80 View Post
    Unfortunately that's the truth.&nbsp;<br>
    We are coded to choose from options. Take an example of arranged marriage. Parents look for a girl who is fair, whose limbs are perfect should have a voice of nightingale should not have a scar on the face etc etc. <br>Hence, you want to choose or you want to be chosen is upto you. (see you have options here too ;P ). Make a choice and stick to it.
    <br><br>I believe thats the best answer among all I read. Yes it is an unfortunate truth that humans always are attracted to something animate or inanimate which is visually appealing &amp; being fat whether it is either for a guy or girl is definitely not the quality to make heads turn for either sex. Having said that I can safely say that there are many overweight girls who have fiancees/boyfriends/husbands &amp; most of them are very happy with their partners. From a purely personal opinion I can tell you that for me the biggest turn off in a girl is being on the heavier side, again I repeat that is only personal opinion. Beauty lies in the beholder's eye so there would be someone who would look beyond the physical appearance &amp; you would get your Mr. right soon.<br>
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    That depends on your definition of love.
    Most girls are attracted only to guys who are handsome or rich or both.
    They simply ignore or friend-zone other guys.
    There may be many boys around you, who really loves you and care for you, but you will be the first person to either ignore them or friend-zone them if they approach you. You may have already ignored them or friend zoned them.

    Also, many girls look very cute and sexy if they are healthy (Personally I don't like skinny girls). But if you are too fat like Tanmay Bhat of AIB or Anant Ambani before weight loss then I will suggest you to lose some weight.
    People say different fancy things about love, but there is always a physical component along with emotional component in any relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hii,

    I am a 26 independent girl who is in search for the RIGHT ONE. I am on the fatter side so I just want to know is it really a sin to be fat ? Is it ok for girls who are beautiful and slim deserve to be loved despite how their behavior is?

    Doesn't a fat girl just deserve one chance to be known ??
    It is simply not true. Some men are attracted to the more heavier woman I truly am one of those.Every man has a preference for a physical attraction to a woman.This attraction is conditioned by society, the images he is told of the woman he is told are attractive.I too started off like that but later I realised I find fat and curvy girls attractive.So despite what the general feeling is their in the society.there are still men like me and I think there is a bigger percentage of such men but that is only the physical part of the attraction.Love goes beyond physical attraction it doesn't matter if you are slim or fat .You love someone because of their personality.how they treat you and how they respond to your love and friendship.You love someone for the person they really are. And any level of physical beauty cannot sustain a relationship beyond a couple of days.

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    I dont want to offend you but thats how the world operates... would you go for someone fatter than you?
    I'm a shhh girl
    Loving me could be a crime

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lisbonstar28 View Post
    Course its not a sin but by human nature there is a process to unconditional love which starts off with infatuation, attraction then devotion. Generally speaking the attraction sparks have to be there initially before we can grapple each others behaviours (my belief). Each to their own cup of tea though i guess? Don't mean to be shallow but i believe slim fit people deserve a lot of respect because they set the healthy standard and inspire others to stay healthy. Unless you have a medical condition, being overweight shows that you don't care about yourself, why would someone want to be with such a person?.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Hii,

    I am a 26 independent girl who is in search for the RIGHT ONE. I am on the fatter side so I just want to know is it really a sin to be fat ? Is it ok for girls who are beautiful and slim deserve to be loved despite how their behavior is?

    Doesn't a fat girl just deserve one chance to be known ??
    I dont know about others but i am pretty sure I love the fat rather than the slick.
    so you deserve the best

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