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    So now here is the deal, I am a simple boy in my engineering final year, while I am from M.P but i shifted to my cousin Bhai's house around 3 years back to complete my engineering from a college in NCR. My Bhai calls my mom Chachi & my Father Chaha, so that is a very imp relation if you guys can understand. My Bhai here is doing job & is married 2 years back with a 8 Months old daughter. Infact it was me who helped in everthing's arrangement for his marriage. My bhabhi is a house wife and a very very nice woman. She treats me so nicely that I never felt like I was away from family. I respect her very much.. But Now the thing that started a year back was when i noticed her beautiful body popping out of her outfits.. Her blue eyes, super attractive figure, milky white colour.. I felt bit attractive but I consoled myself that I was really an idiot who is getting attracted to his Bhabhi and I tried to control myself, which was even going very well.. I once again to mention that I respect her very very much I do never wanted any trouble, but than 3 or 4 month's back while i was sleeping in hall at night i heard some voice coming from different room, so went there to check my bhai bhabhi was making out in dim night bulb's light.. I just went mad and after seeing it accidentally for a minute i was not able to control myself and just went to bathroom only to masturbate.. Now moreover icing on the cake is my bhabhi keeps on feeding her baby , nd she just ignores me as if i m not even there in room exposing her ****s.. So i myself do not go to that room where i feel she is feeding baby.. Now 2 days back while i was asleep in room in the noon with baby sleeping by my side i just observed her bathing all totally nude and so beautiful and sexy with doors little open, that i have lost all my control, i just feel like making a move now and i just keep stopping myself, but then her smile starts killing me.. I am totally messed up as my heart wants to respect her but my mind keeps giving me all dirty thoughts about her.. I am not able to sleep nice since that night..

    I am not very rich from my family background also, residing with my bhai bhabhi has saved lots of my father's hard earned money.. My Bhai Bhabhi has done so much for me, but what i do now, i feel like an animal sometimes..Is there any way now to check and control myself or should i leave house and do what i can without any help..

    Also i know my faults but if somebody else is there who has ever felt like me for somebody else's women please help me with ways to control this kind of hunger..Should i use escort services to suppress these idiocities coming in my mind..

    Please tell me whatever you guys feel but help me out from this confusion and agony..

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    You are at an age where you cannot control your feelings. I say keep masterbating and satisfying yourself, until you get into a relationship and get some sex.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Aaailaaa..
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    Bas yaad rakho .. Har koi Bhaabi Savitha Bhaabi nahi hoti..
    Ye emotion kamakht cheez hi aisa hai ki kisi ka normal kadam bhi tumhe invitation nazar aajaata hai.. bas control rakhiyo emotions pe.. aur aapni waali na milne tak bathroom visit jaari rakhiyo.. that may help u a bit
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    Get out of their house. You said you came here 3 years ago. That means you are in your final year. If you father can't arrange money for your hostel fees at least for an year, find some part time job and earn enough to pay for hostel fee and mess fee. If people ask you why you are moving out in this last year, just tell th you'll have a lot of works go do since you are in the final year, you need time to study, you have to spend lot of time for project with group members, can't do it by staying here etc etc. Just move out soon.
    Give people roses while they can still smell them. . .

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    Bhai jb bhi tumhare Dil mei aise thoughts aye to yaad rakho ... Bhabhi maa samaan hoti h , maal samaan nhi.
    Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive

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    Quote Originally Posted by rv102938 View Post
    You are at an age where you cannot control your feelings. I say keep masterbating and satisfying yourself, until you get into a relationship and get some sex.
    right .............

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neha1 View Post
    Bhai jb bhi tumhare Dil mei aise thoughts aye to yaad rakho ... Bhabhi maa samaan hoti h , maal samaan nhi.
    Lol. Brother I can safely say that your are almost 21 and show some maturity. I know how you are feeling but truth is the day you make wrong move, you will screwed from all possible places. She is comfortable and secure with you, so she has no problem feeding her child before you. Stop your peeping Tom attitude. Find a good gal as ur gf and learn to understand women rather than objectifying them.

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    well your place is not in their house... i think you need to move out from there before you destroy or disturb their well set relationship and little family!!
    I'm a shhh girl
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    Quote Originally Posted by ariesgirl View Post
    Get out of their house.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sweet Mimi View Post
    i think you need to move out
    this advice is impractical. men are from mars, women are from venus.
    Ek din sher banke jeene se behtar hai do din sher banke jiyo...

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    Next time, imagine what will it look like if you replace your bhabhi's head with your mother's or sister's, just only keep the same body.
    You never know what you can become ..

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