hi i recently became engaged and its to a man i have bene with for 5 years. I know i want to marry him and spend my life with him but sometimes i am so scared of egtting married and leaving my comfort zone. I also am afraid his mother will smother us. I have decided to get my own flat but the problem is now i have to pay for that too and then i stress what will we eat if i am spending all my income on cost of living. Can someone please tellme i am not crazy