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    Hi everyone.My girlfriend and i have a problem, we want to have anal sex but no matter what i do we never get to the actual intercourse.when we have anal foreplay we use loads of lube but it causes her pain. both of us have had anal sex with previous partners so we both no what we are doing.i am starting to wonder if it could be the durex lube that could be the problem? does anyone have any ideas of how we can have the anal sex we both want without any pain?

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    Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you're doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it's entirely possible to enjoy anal sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life. However, some people may never like it, and if you are one of those people your partner must respect your limits.
    Initial penetration is always the most difficult part of anal sex -- the anus is a tight ring of flesh at the opening of the rectum designed to control the elimination of bodily waste. It is partially under voluntary control, and partially reflexive to stimulation. Your partner has to relax, and you have to go slow to coax it into opening enough to receive the *****.
    Lots of lubrication has to be used and the finger (1st one finger then two) should be used to let the anus get used t o the activity before the actual intercourse.

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    hey preeto maam ... thats a lotta knowledge on anal sex .. i always thought it was unsafe or something .. thamx

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    Well, yes, but there are many things that you need to keep in mind while having anal sex. Some important do's and dont's that must be observed!

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    Quote Originally Posted by inorderto View Post
    why insist upon breaking in through the backdoor, while you can enter the home through the already open front door, and that also in a legal way?
    Actually, sex, if it is with mutual consent, is a purely private affair. This is true, of course, if the boy and the girl are not underage, in which case, it is considered rape if reported.
    But the choice between anal and ******l or any other sex is purely personal.

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    my boyfriend inserted a long plastic handle kinda thing before doin it, it was awesome, u have to do ot

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    Well, why dont you enjoy the journey with your GF than have jus sex...argh

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    Quote Originally Posted by dark.sword View Post
    my boyfriend inserted a long plastic handle kinda thing before doin it, it was awesome, u have to do ot
    OKay...

    i m getting interest in anal also.......!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sujoy View Post
    OKay...

    i m getting interest in anal also.......!!
    V good!!!!

    Try it out soon n lemme knw hw it feels!!!!!

    Okay

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    Quote Originally Posted by dESIRABLE View Post
    V good!!!!

    Try it out soon n lemme knw hw it feels!!!!!

    Okay
    Okay Veenu..

    As u wish......

    i will tell as soon as i do it..

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    I never knew that Indian people have anal sex. I always thought this kind of stuff was a taboo in Indian sexual practice. It has become very popular in the west. But I don't know about India. People don't seem to talk about it much which leads me to believe that maybe this is very uncommon amongst Indians. Same goes for oral sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Betaab View Post
    I never knew that Indian people have anal sex. I always thought this kind of stuff was a taboo in Indian sexual practice. It has become very popular in the west. But I don't know about India. People don't seem to talk about it much which leads me to believe that maybe this is very uncommon amongst Indians. Same goes for oral sex.
    My dear, this is the land of the KAMASUTRA!!!

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    honestl speaking although it looks great in porn movies its highly uncomfortable, but its thrilling !!



    i wud like to congratulate preeto mam for heading the most forward and frank forum of india, not only guys but us gals are also comin out with our question coz of ur amazing solutions in the past

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    Quote Originally Posted by Betaab View Post
    I never knew that Indian people have anal sex. I always thought this kind of stuff was a taboo in Indian sexual practice. It has become very popular in the west. But I don't know about India. People don't seem to talk about it much which leads me to believe that maybe this is very uncommon amongst Indians. Same goes for oral sex.

    Yeah ..my 20 yrs old friend from NEwYork came to me last month n she was sharing abt anal sex..she told me she has done lots of time n its very common there but i doubt in India it happens at large level..we only talk abt that I think but not practising really...In porn movies it looks so normal but they are just performers...I think In India, we dont consider it natural and lubricants needed for this act are not available n popular in the market...anyways its a private matter of anybody liking or disliking it...but good to share...anyways a joke -


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    Last edited by sUniL SaHiL; 18-08-2007 at 11:27 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sUniL SaHiL View Post

    Yeah ..my 20 yrs old friend from NEwYork came to me last month n she was sharing abt anal sex..she told me she has done lots of time n its very common there but i doubt in India it happens at large level..we only talk abt that I think but not practising really...In porn movies it looks so normal but they are just performers...I think In India, we dont consider it natural and lubricants needed for this act are not available n popular in the market...anyways its a private matter of anybody liking or disliking it...but good to share...anyways a joke -


    Pathan kee beewi pathan se boli - "Hello, Maine aap se shaadi Isliye ki thi ke hamare bachhe paida hon..issliye nahi ki thi ki Potty khulkar aaye"


    lloollzzz, nice one

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